what would u think if someone purposed and the 2 mnths. later asked you 2 move out?

Question

in about 2 months my fiance went from caring supportive dad to "get out you have 2 weeks"...we just had a baby, he popped the question in the hospital in fact, our son is 3 monthes old...HELP he say i dont make him happy anymore...what should i do?

Answer 1

First and foremost, he is a loser. Even if there were irreconcilable differences between you, the child should have been considered. If you live in the US, I would seek legal council immediately, and get alimony and minimally child support.
Right now, make sure you have some critical information that you should be able to obtain. Like credit card numbers, SSN, work information, bank account information. You are getting this to expedite receiving income if he bolts. If you have to prove paternity (that he is the father), look into how you need to prove that. You would only need that if he contests paternity.

As an immediate concern, make sure you and your child are safe while you are proceeding on these items. I also highly recommend that you proceed without making him aware of what you are doing. Right now, the most important thing is that you are able to live in a safe, clean environment with your child. Everything I indicated above will help you secure that.

Good Luck

Answer 2

Be glad you never married this as$hole and be glad that your child will never have to witness his parents unhappy marriage. I believe that certain people propose marriage, not because they want to commit to a lifetime bond with you but because they feel its expected. And if you watch Friends, read romance novels or watch crappy movies on lifetime, then guys are expected and often do propose right before or after you have given birth. It's not for you but a way to legitimize their place in the child's life by being the husband and not the "baby daddy."

Answer 3

Well it's simple
he told you, you don't make him happy sooo....
leave him youre child is probably better off that way theirs always someone willing to love you and your child. just take this into mind "what goes around comes around" ! Honey don't worry life's now about how that child is going to grow and what your going to teach him/her. If you don't make him happy chances are he wont make you happy. Time to move on !!