My friend who is 13 is pregnant. How can she tell her mom?
2007-02-21 06:48:30 · 25 answers · asked by youjrys 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
oh goodness. That is the same age as me, I'm almost 14. I am waiting till marriage....
oh my goodness....she must be a sl*t.....I'm not trying to be mean but that is what everyone at school is going to call her.
She could just tell her mom, "Mom, I've been sleeping around behind your back and we were stupid and didn't use protection and now guess what??? You're baby is going to have a baby!"
Her mom isn't gonna be too happy with her....she should have saved herself until marriage. She is in a huge predicament.
Just don't let her get an abortion!!!
2007-02-21 09:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by em<3 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I also got pregnant at 13! I am now 24.
There is really no easy way to tell parents. Sometimes it is best to try and let them find out! Maybe leaving the test on top of the trash! She needs to tell asap because being so young make a person need early pre-natal care more than anyone else!
Her and her mom need to discuss her options. If your friend has Internet access please give her this link
http://www.testriffic.com/story/jayzmeg82/495
I can be contacted through that site
2007-02-21 06:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by OMeganO 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant whenever i was 15 and now my daughter is going to be 9 months old and ill be 17 in september...were doing great!! I thought my parents would killll me...but i got a family member who i was close to (my aunt) and i had her to help me tell my parents...i was going to leave a letter before i went to school...that would be good....and dont let anyone talk about her like she's something bad....people do things that have somewhat bad consequences but in the end it all works out great...most likely she'll be so happy in 9 months with a smile on her face!! Tell her i said live her life to the fullest and give her baby what it needs for the both of them to be happy!
2007-02-21 07:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy of 3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am the mom of a 15 year old girl who is pregnant. There is absolutely no easy way of telling her mom. All I can say is it is always easier to talk in the bedroom than it is in the livingroom or kitchen. That's where my daughter and I do our best talking. Good luck.
2007-02-24 13:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by tltatum2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for your friend. is she sure? better to get it over with then keep it a secret. look around your area, maybe on the internet, to see what kind of young mother programs there are out there. as a friend, maybe you could be with her when she tells her mom. she needs all the support she can get. and in response to another post about her being a slut, most people know you only have to have sex ONCE to get pregnant - that doesn't make anyone a slut! give her a hug from me : )
2007-02-22 04:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just 13 when I got my friend pregnant. I was tutoring her and things got out of hand and we had sex. I had turned 13 just two weeks before. When she found out she was alredy four and half months pregnant. my mother was upset with me but she stayed with me close. I now have a 3 year old daughter. Since I have moved out of my house and live alone with the kid (her mother left last year and left her with me). Tell your friend she needs to go to her mom and be honest. It will be hard but it will be easier than keeping it a secret. Go with her when she tells her mom so you can offer support. Tell her good luck.
2007-02-21 07:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, the best thing for your friend to do is tell her mom now before her mom finds out from someone else. Of course her mom will be angry and if she is afraid that her mom will get violent, she should tell her mom with a friend or in a public place.
2007-02-21 07:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmmmmmmmm Wow that is a big step to take I think she should tell her mom by note before she leaves for school. Something along the lines of " Mom you know I love you and you did everything you could as a parent but I'm pregnant and I need you to help me through this . . . . .. . . .. . . .
2007-02-21 09:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell her parents that they need to talk. Once they have seated down she should take a deep breath and say," Mom & Dad, I am sorry about what I am about to say, but I am pregnant. Will you forgive me and also help me go through this?" If she wants to keep the baby than tell her to also say," I would like to keep the baby. But if she doesn't want to keep the baby then she should ask them to please help her put it up for addoption instead of aborting it. Because you shouldn't abort babies and there are a lot of people out there that can't have children and would LOVE to have one. Go with her just in case they aren't very happy and help her with tellng them.
2007-02-21 07:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by Autumn B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By tellinig her right now, today, the sooner the better. She needs her mom's help in making some pretty big decisions! She's years away from being deemed mature enough to drive a car and here she is facing the prospects of raising a baby. Please, go with her if you must but she must go right to her parents. No delay.
2007-02-24 05:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋