If you don't trust your partner 100%? I am happy but always feel that nagging doubt when he is out! Yes he has lied too many times to count but don't know if someone can be completely happy with an ounce of doubt?
2007-02-21 06:31:09 · 9 answers · asked by confused one 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
until you can trust your spouse you will always have doubts and not be trully happy
2007-02-21 06:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can be 100 % happy unless you are doubt free. But if all you have is some doubts about his honesty he can earn that back slowly over time. Someday you may look back and realize that you trust him again and you are completely happy. If you're in the marriage you are in it for the long haul. Just encourage you husband to talk to you about what he's doing when he's away from you (but don't be a nagging harpy about it). Communication can cure all ills.
2007-02-21 06:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very interesting it rhymed.
Please dont be a sitting duck. Because that is what you are doing. Even the bible gives you permission to divorce for unfaithfulness. I would leave him. You are only sitting there to be hurt again. Your conscience is telling you right. There is no way that you can be happy with doubt in your heart. He is still trying to live the single life and he has no respect for you. Pick your self up and wipe off the dust and leave him. Dont paint a pretty picture in your mind of what you had or what you could have with him. That will only keep you tied down to him. The fact is that he ruined that picture by doing what he did. How can he love you if he is being sexually intimate with another women. How gross can he be. By the way this message is coming from a married guy. So take my word
2007-02-21 06:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by larryissfc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're searching for the fairy tale concern and it in simple terms won't take place. There are marriages that final for some years. it fairly is commonplace to examine some couple that have been married for fifty, 60, or perhaps 70 years. have been they happy for all those a protracted time? Nope. there have been moments whilst the guy and lady could no longer stand one yet another. yet they stayed mutually. Why? through fact one bump in the line does no longer recommend the top of it. In a reliable marriage the reliable outweighs the undesirable. over the years you study to settle for one yet another and each and all of the little dumb, stupid issues your important different does. it fairly is existence. 2 those with diverse techniques and ideology meet, are drawn to one yet another, get married and after a time then they fall in love. Love did no longer take place in the initiating...that replaced into infatuation. Love comes from years of putting up with each and each others sh*t. Love makes it extra trouble-free to try this. My spouse and that i'll have fun 40 5 years mutually in 2013. definite. we are happy. on the different hand there in all hazard isn't an afternoon is going by potential of i do no longer p*ss her off a minimum of as quickly as that day. comparable for her. We stay mutually through fact we the two comprehend slightly of anger is a short-term concern and love is lots extra beneficial than anger.
2016-10-16 04:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you expect to trust a person who has lied too many times? You'll never be at peace if you have nagging doubts.
2007-02-21 06:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You answer your own question. Can you be happy with a liar? Only if you really dont care what hes doing. If you do, then how can you be happy when no matter what he tells you , youll never be able to believe.
2007-02-21 06:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i am married and i am a very happy in my marriage, you two might not be meant to be sorry It all depends on the person it take two to make it
2007-02-21 06:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by ebabybrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 years and two great kids here. Going strong.
2007-02-21 06:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by Superdog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No trust is a big issue....if you don't have it , then its not worth wasting your time.........
2007-02-21 06:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋