i have been married for 3 yrs and i love to flirt w/my hubby , but he takes it like oh sh** do u have sex on your brain again??!! he says i push sex on him too much and i feel like he does not initiate sex enough with me. it is not the a matter of attractiveness either. we both are attractive people , but he does brush me off or roll his eyes at me and has often says i have sex on the brain
2007-02-21 06:13:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not sure, but I'm sorry.
I believe he is missing out on something special that is uniquely you and your gift to him. I think later in life he will regret it.
Hang in there and don't change. Express yourself with all your heart.
Love is such a wonderful gift!
my best to you
2007-02-21 06:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your sex drive is a little higher...Maybe try to tone down the flirty-ness and do it in a more subtle way...Try not to mention or ask for sex, and see how long he goes without asking you for it. Think of it as a game to see how long it takes. While you're playing "the game," go to bed either nude or wearing something risque...(a t-shirt with nothing under usually works for me) and don't say anything about sex, or touch him in a sexual way...There should be only so much of that he could take. If he doesn't cave in after that???? Good luck
2007-02-21 06:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by blamb! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some more information is needed to properly answer this question. Has he always been this way? If he has, then maybe you should ask him why. If not, it could be a number of things but the best solution is to ask him why his behavior has changed. My point is that no one knows why he is the way he is except him. So, ask him! I could speculate on this untill dawn and I may never come across the right answer. Just be open and honest with him and hopefully he will be that way with you.
2007-02-21 06:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by hrld_sleeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change him. That is his nature. He will always be like that, if you are waiting for him to be like you. Either be more demure and stop hinting and being overtly sexual with him when you're not in bed because it is bothering him or leave him for a sexier man. If it makes you mad and you feel bad about yourself, then get out while you still can.
2007-02-21 06:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband does the same thing and we've only been married for 7 months! talk about feeling rejected. anyways he said it was because he honestly enjoys going places, doing fun stuff, and cuddling just as much if not more. Totally makes no sense to me but whatever... i hope somebody else has a better answer for you...
2007-02-21 06:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by smadlersong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a lover on the side. Your man is obviously Lame in the shorts ;)
2007-02-21 06:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is not willing to please you...When you want!..Go out and get some toys. That should either shut him up, or intimidate him to the point where he gives it more often!
2007-02-21 06:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the life of just about every married man. Try not coming on so strong to him. Try different things, positions, toys, bondage, semi-private places etc.
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2007-02-21 06:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, I'm sorry but just get yourself a toy. If he sees you with that, I think it wll boost his libido.
2007-02-21 06:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋