I am feeling very low as each and every person in my life has betrayed my trust.Even my school friends have betrayed my trust whom i use to think my best friends.I never made hundreds of friends in my school time. i just made 3-4 friends in my school time thinking it is good to make long lasting relation with hand full of people instead of making 100 never supporting friends.but they all have betrayed my trust.i am not able to maintain any relation. all those relation were god made means which were from birth i.e all my relative i am not able to maintain relation with them also. but in all those breaking up it was not my fault it was their fault to keep me using for something or other.i don't like to discuss my problems with each and every person in my life but some people are disclosing my life to every in society.what i should do so that people are more faithful to me?
2007-02-21 05:38:48 · 9 answers · asked by Diksha A 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Deepti
You are an intelligent person. First day itself you have replied 8 questions in yahoo!answers nicely. You have experience of being with Bank - which indicates your capabilities.You will get job in near future. Have confidence in yourself.
Regarding your problem of communication with others, please note that world is like that only. You, if feel necessary only, confine your problems to friend/person who is (1) your wellwisher and (2) capable of hleping you out. If any close friend is not in a position to help you or a capable person,you feel may be insincere towards you, you should not take that person in confidence. No use.
Again Yahoo! answers is another outlet. Confidentiality is maintained and you get good advice.
Forget about history of your defaulting friends.You are just starting life. Make new friends who are positiveminded - optimistic - encouraging. Last but not the least divine help may be sought. HIS blessings will get you good understanding friends - good environment - good oppurunities in life.
BEST OF LUCK.
2007-02-21 18:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by PK LAMBA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand what specific question your asking. However, life experiences either leaves bitterness of lemon or motivate us to make lemonade learning from these experiences to make ourselves a better person inspite of how others treat us. No one has control over what or how others actions are, but you do have control over what you do, how you want to live and who you want to have in your personal space. Those that betrayed you are not worthy of your friendship or any relation with you. My advice to you is not to readily trust anyone until one has approven to be trustworthy and that can be know over time. Also, know that they're are people who are trustworthy, have integrity and moral of treating others the way they want to be treated.
Also, know that you problaby left yourself too open and vulnerable to others who betrayed you and you have to take responsiblity for being too navie and listen to your inner vocie to guide you. Everyone has an inner voice if something feels not right then it's probably not right. Examine people characters before trusting. God Bless
2007-02-21 14:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Confused,
People grow up, grow apart and go their own ways and have their own problems and more problems.
Just because your friends are not paying attention to you and your needs doe snot mean that they do not like you or betray you. Please put yourself in thier shoes and think what you would do! Anyway, you really need to talk to someone openly.
If you can not find some one to talk or if you are too shy just drop me line. I will try my best to give few minutes of my time.
2007-02-22 01:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel may be u really dont no how people r? well may be any misunderstanding has caused such a problem.but dont u worry life just goes on.may be god has decided good friends to u in tha future.so be happy & dont u loose ur mind cause of that.every1 still need time to understand u .be free when u talk & se may be it will work.
2007-02-22 04:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by jonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai deepthi dont feel very much for that ,the persons who really understands u they wil with u forever . persons who really likes u wil be with until ur life ends . dont feel much that u r not having so many frins . if u r intrested i wil be as ur frin forever . u can contact me on neekosam7@yahoo.co.in. waiting for ur reply . c u soon .
2007-02-22 08:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by lalluu l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN MY OPINION YOU NEED TO TAKE TIME AND THINK ABOUT ALL YOU ARE DOING TO CAUSE THE BAD RELATIONSHIPS AND TO THINK ABOUT WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU REALLY WANT. YOU CAN'T CONTROL WHAT OTHERS DO OR THINK BUT YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO THINK ON THE POSITIVE WHAT EVER THEY MAY BE. I KNOW ITS HARD TO DON'T BE A BUTT-HOLE BUT DON'T LET YOURSELF BE A DOORMAT OR FEEL LIKE ONE ANYMORE-THAT'S MY ADVICE!
2007-02-21 13:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Yvette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-21 13:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is really nothing you can do except be yourself and be true to yourself.
2007-02-21 13:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by janiebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome in yahoo answers.
you will find more and more friends.
2007-02-21 13:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by Girish Sharma,yahoo superstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋