My wife has a mean streak you wouldn't believe. One minute she's fine and the next she treats me like a stranger who has cut her off in traffic...and that's probably an understatement. She doesn't even treat me like a friend, let alone her husband. It seems that she completely disregards my feelings when she says and does things while in this "mode" of hers. She claims it's "a demon" and to be honest with you, I believe her (I'm a devout Catholic and STRONGLY believe that demons exist and can possess human hosts) because my wife is a good woman, she really is. But this mean streak she gets is getting VERY old and I'm seriously thinking about leaving her...no kidding. We're going to marriage counseling (our first session is on Monday...which can't come soon enough!!) But how do I deal with her being a female dog until then...or even past then?
2007-02-21 05:35:54 · 11 answers · asked by Shawn L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage counseling does not work..
It is a scam perpetrated by marriage counselors...
Sounds like you need to tell your wife that the next
time she lets her demon out, you will divorce her...
2007-02-21 05:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
It's tough I know. But, Monday isn't that far away. How about just trying to be loving in your actions even if you're not feeling "in love" with her right now. And if you're a devout Catholic, I'd say you need to get on your knees and pray for her. Jesus said you if you have the faith as small as a mustard seed you can move mountains. Surely, this same faith could move a demon from out of your wife.
And I'll help. I'll pray for you and her before I even hit the submit button on this answer.
2007-02-21 05:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by penhead72 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard of Bi-Polar syndrome? I dated a girl that had a very very sweet disposition that would melt any guy. She was the perfect lover with a very feminine touch. But when she was in one of moods if looks could kill I'd be a dead man. This side of her did not come out until well in to our relationship. It is like she waited for me to get addicted to her sweetness before revealing this side of her. She was an absolutely gorgeous fem-fatal that new just how to work a man. The relationship lasted 4 years because I knew how to handle her but at what cost to me.
Once she did finally show the face of "The Stranger" it started happening more frequently. It is not a demon she has a mental disorder that can be controlled. I hate to tell you a marriage counseling my make it worse. A general counselor lack the necessary skills to diagnose or treat this type of disorder.
She wanted very badly to get married but I just couldn't do it. I did not want her to get her hooks even deeper in to me. She told me out all the men she dated I was not controllable. She pushed for marriage and wanted kids because she knew I would do anything for my children. The kids would have been my Achilles Heel in that relationship. As much as I love that girl I love myself more.
For your own sake get your wife to a professional that understand this issue.
2007-02-21 06:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS she not Schizophrenic. it sounds as if she has a split personality. Have her analysed by a psychiatrist. It might be a chemical thing that needs medication. She might also be a person who is bipolar. I worked with someone like that for 8 years and left when she chose to continue with her negative tactics. Usually people with serious rejection issues that have not been dealt with end up like this. Thats often the root of their problems. I suggest a visit to a pychiatrist. Speak to your doctor first and ask him to recommend one. Good luck!
2007-02-21 05:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Devil made her do it? Seriously???? Your gonna let her use that out? I wouldn't. We all are accountable for our actions. If it were a Demon then it would be 24/7 not just when she's in a mood. She sounds frigid and unemotionally involved. She probably needs to get individualized counseling also.
2007-02-21 05:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently there is something upsetting her, I hope the
counseling helps, try listening to her, and hug her and tell
her you love her. I'm not sure about the whole possessed
thing but it could happen. Have you moved recetly or have you bought anythig new and brought it inside the house. I do believe houses and objects hold negative energy and can affect the people around those things.
We moved into my Mother-in-laws house about 2 years
and she was a mean, hateful woman, her energy is in this house strong and myself and my husband have been
fighting ever since and needless to say, we are looking to move!!!!!
2007-02-21 05:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen man! Don't put up with any crap. You only live once and there are plenty of women that will treat you great.
If you ever think of leaving her...Sell everything put it in an offshore account, go to Las Vegas...keep the receipts and say you lost it all gambling and you have a problem. Once it is all said a done...cash out and enjoy your life. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-21 05:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by moralityisrelative1 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe shes bipolar my husband was and abusive i was raised church of god i believe in demons i think my husband was demon possesed your wife could be its up to you to leave or stay
2007-02-23 14:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly she should try mood enhancing meds. Or even anxiety meds. Zoloft and Xanax might help.
2007-02-21 05:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by bubblyboo 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How long have you been married...that's only 5 days away...
2007-02-21 05:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋