Ok...I am having so much problems right now. There's this girl named Rebecca in my school. She is THE prettiest girl in the school...she gets all the guys and all the friends. She has long dark blonde hair and this pretty green eyes. She wears Bebe and Guess, and she even has Chanel purses. Why can't I be like her? I have no friends. I have this curly red hair. I really want to be like this girl...what can I do?? PLEASE HELP!
2007-02-21 05:15:13 · 13 answers · asked by Trisha D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Rebecca, at one point, is going to get old!
I was never popular in school..but after going to my 20th reunion...I'm one of the only ones that aren't fat, self-absorbed people that went nowhere in life.
Beauty fades...but your personality is the true you.
Don't let her get to you...you are your own person....be true to yourelf!
2007-02-21 05:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by Nibbles 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats all fake my love. the chanel, the bebe, the popularity. iknow its hard to feel like a nobody, but your NOT a nobody and im so sorry someone has had the power to make you feel that way those people are FAKE. I dont know if you are a believer but When you live for God, your never alone. On his path, fake does not exist. And the people you come across who do not accept you because you aren't carrying a chanel or have long blonde hair are not on his path. Therefor they shouldnt matter to you at all. And those who ARE on the path of righteousness see the beauty in your curly red hair. Everyone wants acceptance on the fake path, because its glamorous. but on gods path your beauty is seen by the people who should matter and they will be drawn to a confidence you cant escape once you let him into your heart.
2007-02-21 05:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth be known there are probably lots of girls in your class that would love to have your curly red hair. Be sure you go to a good beautician and get the right fix for your hair. The other advice given is sound. Just be yourself and don't try to be like someone else - you have to be your own person. join different organizations in school and develop your own personality. Sure some people are gifted with looks or personality but everyone has value and a lot to offer. So make the best of your talents and don't try to be like the one who will be fat and divorced three times by your 10th class reunion.
2007-02-21 05:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpicker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off let me tell you you are beautifual just the way you are. you are here for a reson and god made you the way he did for a reason. i understand about the preasures of wanting to be pretty and have someone like you. but think about how hard she has to work to keep up that image. she probley only gets the attention from guys for the wrong reasons. you should be happy being you. it took me jr hs and hs to realizae that i m just happy being me. i dont want to impress anyone else and try to be something i m not. i may not b a skinny supermodel and you might not be either but u r beautifual in ur own way and you should never let anyone tell you any differently and make you feel inferior. if you wanna change only you can do that and if you are make sure you are doing it for you and not because of some girl . people will notice you being fake and trying to be something you are not. you are a smart grl and you should be making yourself happy instead of other people. remeber someone is always dissapointed and someone will always have something to say about you no matter wat. so dont pay any attention to them and just workk about you and ur life. tell them to kiss your *** because you are better than them anyway because you are not fake. good luck grl and keep your head up. hope i have helped a little
2007-02-21 05:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself. Take joy in what you enjoy doing, and find friends who enjoy the same things. Your self confidence has more to do with how other people see you than being "pretty". You don't have to be the most popular girl in school, you just have to be happy.
2007-02-21 05:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually have a chum becuz of something like that we've been compelled to take a seat down next to a minimum of one yet another and b companions and he or she has in hassle-free terms some buddies and is quiet all the time until eventually shes with me then she tlks on and on and on yet i'm superb to her. if i all started ignoring her i think of shed flow into melancholy. i think of you may desire to consult her and tell her what made you mad and flow from there in case you dont want to b her chum anymore tell her nicely and flow on with ur existence if u do wanna be her chum basically tell her to no longer tlk a lot.
2016-09-29 10:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all don't try to be like anyone but yourself and,if you really want to be popular than just be you.IF you want a new look than DI your hair blond join school activities and be you.
2007-02-21 05:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have everything in the world that you think would make some one happy ,but nothing will for very long,if you don't have Jesus.
2007-02-21 05:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Kay H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a straightner and maybe dye your hair , wear mac make up by some new clothes from abercrombie lose some weight, gain more confidence smile more, go 2 all the parties , try not to get drunk, flirt, watch whatever everyone else does keep up on the gossip ... involve yourself in their social circle and then you will be just like them !!Xx
2007-02-21 05:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
well one day go to the spa and make your ( hair ,nails,etc....)act normally witch means do not do anything to get attention from anyone .
P.S. try helping other unpopler girls they might be your friends someday...
2007-02-21 05:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by f_u_n_n_y_2_f_u_n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋