I know that Brad has posted questions concerning our relationship. Now I have a question. He has asked me to re-marry him. I said yes. This in turn made my youngest sister mad but oh well.
My question--Is this considered a vow renewal ceremony or is this a second wedding?
Are there any certain things that have to be done when you re-marry the person you previously divorced?
Please feel free to share any thoughts or suggestions that you may have.
2007-02-21 05:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Amiee,
This is considered a wedding not a vow renewal ceremony. At this point you two are not legally married for it to be considered a vow renewal ceremony. There are not any certain things that absolutely have to be done when you re-marry in this situation that I know of.
However I do suggest that you two attend marriage counseling. You might also try talking to your pastor. You want to put behind you whatever caused the first marriage to end in divorce. You want to avoid that happening again.
Just take it slow. Talk, talk talk. Just be there for one another.
Hope it all works out the way you want it to and congratulations.
2007-02-21 05:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to make up your mind. Marriage isnt something to be turned on and off at will. Since you acquired a divorce, I dont see it as a renewal of those vows. Apparantly they didnt work the first time. I'd try some new vows that you're able to live up to. Good Luck, and PLEASE, a lotta effort !
2007-02-21 13:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important you need to do is ask yourself, why did you get divorced? Think about this question long and hard, people don't change, maybe for a moment but not
usually for the long haul.
2007-02-21 13:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know who "Brad" is or what he's posted, but it sounds interesting...
You have to get married just as if you were marrying someone brand new. If your divorce is final, then you have to go through the whole process all over again.
Good luck.
2007-02-21 13:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really u just remmarry the person and another thing dont be to worried about whos mad at u because your back with him all that matters is your happiness not theres so good luck
2007-02-21 13:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by lala_lollypop_tasty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got bad news for you...Brad left you for Angelina.
2007-02-21 13:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by BiggieSize 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont have a cluw why did u divorce in the first place
2007-02-21 13:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by ...x...sxy ting...x... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please make sure you go to a marriage councelor this time around. BEFORE the marriage.
2007-02-21 13:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by emce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋