my friends just told me she is pregnant now i dont know if she is having me on or she is seriouse! she has a 17 year old boyfriend and she sleeps at his alot! maybe she is actualy telling the truth? i dont know what to do or how to react! i know i should get her through this as i know its not an easy thing to do but should i be angry with her at the sme time?
2007-02-21 04:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by <3 skittles <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It depends on how you as a person feel about the situation, If you feel that she is telling you the truth then she probably is but it would not hurt to find out more information from her before you make any assumptions. Just be there for her as you have and let her know you support her no matter what, things like this are never easy, so being mad at her will make it worse unless she got pregnant on purpose. it does not seem like she is thinking clearly and probably is not sure what to do herself.
2007-02-21 05:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has lied to you then you have reason to be angry with her, but if she is telling the truth then she obviously told you as she trusts you. If she is pregnant, then I think that you need to help her and offer her your support. You need to speak to her about whether she wants to keep the baby or whether she wants an abortion. Think about what you would like her to do if you were in her position.
2007-02-21 05:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! I was very angry when my elder sister told me she slept with her boyfriend. I love her, so I was very angry and not talk to her for a month! She was very upset. I had never told her the reason of it.
I think you should tell her how you feel. The reason you are angry (disappointed?), but make sure she know your feeling is out of love for you.
Then, tell her you are willing to help and be honesty.
2007-02-21 05:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by kol long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is only after doing a test get her to double check by doing another go with her and you will see for your self.. if not offer to bring her to the doctor because she will need your support if she is and at least you get proof!
2007-02-21 04:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are not just about having a good laugh, friends are there when they are needed in bad times too. whether this is a good or bad time, I don't know but whatever is the case, you should be supportive.
2007-02-21 04:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by looby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her as much as you can now...when the time will come and be suitable she will need some discipline maybe you can`t give it to her but she has to get it from some place look out for her..that's what friendship is all about...good luck!
2007-02-21 05:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Michael69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i be angry at her. why she pregnant by your boyfriend. if not yes help her having a baby at 17th it's not easy. lot of work good luck.
2007-02-21 05:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by sweet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust your m8 and help her through it, but if she's lying then U can be angry
2007-02-21 04:52:15 · answer #9 · answered by chillin_in_england 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the sam experience my friend had a baby well i think you should stay with her and comfort her because roght now its a hard time for her and she needs you.
2007-02-21 04:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Miss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋