her to love me and call me her own. She rejects me all the time. Do I call it quits or do i continue to build a relationship with her even though she doesn't care? She continues to hate me because of who i choose to be with,..but i'm in love,...help..
2007-02-21 04:45:40 · 8 answers · asked by lovelthotchik747 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I love you too lena! Thank you.
2007-02-21 05:03:58 · update #1
move in with your best friend she loves you and wants you there if your mom is gonna act like that then forget you have tried to make things work and obviously your mom won't see that and you love your parents but you're not happy and you're best friend hates when you're going through stuff she'll always be there for you no matter what though and no matter who you're with even if everyone else hates it! She'll stick wit u through it all! SHE PROMISES!! SHE LOVES YOU MORE THAN LIFE ITSELF!!!
2007-02-21 04:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's harsh. Your mom has serious issues if she would say such a thing to her own daughter.
If you're over 18, it's time to move out and start distancing yourself from your mother. She is choosing to be a toxic force in your life, and by constantly seeking her approval, you are letting her poison your emotional and mental health. Tell your mom that you love her and will try to forgive her, but that you can't have her in your life if she insists on pushing you away all the time. If and when she is ready to repair the damage she's done to the relationship, tell her you will be more than happy to meet her halfway.
Then go seek and share your love elsewhere. I strongly suggest meeting with a therapist to help you deal with this rejection, before it sabotages your future relationships.
2007-02-21 12:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed, sorry to hear that. That must really be troubling you. The thing to keep in mind is you love your mom, and your mom loves you, she clearly wants her best interests. She's probably angry and disapointed, we all handle this in a different way. If you love the guy your with stick with him. Your mom will have to learn to be with you despite your relationship. I wouldn't reach out too much to her and have her stomp you down, thats got to be tough on you. Reach out to her ocassionally, call her. She has to come to terms with it. Let her know that you are happy. In time she'll come around, don't expect it to be soon, you may just have to accept it.
2007-02-21 12:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by fluffkins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instruction for Life # 11
from the Dalai Lama
Live a good, honerable life. Then when you get old and think back you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.
2007-02-21 12:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Did you not grow up with her?
She probably resents the things she gave up when she had you. That is HER problem, not yours. Give her space and let her realize how great you are and what she is missing out on.
2007-02-21 12:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up keep on trying try to talk to her or even write her a note or something but never give up !!! good luck xoxoxox
2007-02-21 12:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sad. I'm sorry. I guess it might be time to give her some room, and let her know when and if she wants, you'll be available. That's a real shame.
2007-02-21 12:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I FSHE CANNOT ACCEPT U FOR WHO U ARE THEN JUST FORGET HER, BE WITH THE ONE U LOVE AND EVENTUALLY SHE WILL ACCEPT IT. IF YOU KNOW SHE REALLY LOVES U THEN SHE WILL NOT GO ON THE REST OF HER LIFE HATING YOU.
BUT SHE CAN GO ON THE REST OF HER LIFE HATING THE GUY YOU CHOSE TO BE WITH.
jUST LETTING YOU KNOW
2007-02-21 12:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by LUV-ME-OR-HATE-ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋