The weird thing about it is she always told me she hated porn and would never watch it with me. I always told her that it is just to intensify arousal. Well now I have found her porn trail on her computer and I am kind of happy about it. I will never tell her what I saw but how can I loosen her up to watch it with me. She is a closeted porn lover I guess. LOL
2007-02-21 04:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you should get an account at http://www.thepurplegriffin.com and casually leave it open on the screen. Then she can view her favorites and the website can be something that you guys share together!
2007-02-22 09:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will be tricky, but I suggest take her out for a nice date, get a couple glasses of wine in her, (if she drinks), give her a massage to get her relaxed and then turn the porn on! I suggest you pre pick out something to watch that is "female friendly" or maybe similar to the kind of porn you see that she likes through the online trail. Give her a lot of reassurance and compliments and just make it seem like its fun and light and not a big deal...if she resists though, don't let it turn into a fight, just turn it off and continue the lovemaking to show her she's more important than the porn. Then maybe at a later time you can talk about it and try to figure out why she's so embaressed/ashamed and go from there. Good luck!
2007-02-21 15:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by neverneverland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an interesting thing... as a guy I do like porn. I had a few VHS tapes, and some pics, and a few clips when I met my wife. Then, after she moved in and she saw that I was okay with it she added some of her own to her PC, mostly movie clips.
Someone else suggested watching some of hers when you know she'll see you. She may not want to watch it with you, but your tacit approval should encourage her to relax about it.
2007-02-21 18:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its quite the opposite here. I enjoy porn, my husband can take it or leave it. Often, late at night when he is "absorbed" in his computer games, I turn on the tv and watch soft porn, as he calls it. I watch it hoping that it will turn him on and want to have sex, but 99% of the time it won't work. Good luck to you.
2007-02-21 13:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by danicasmamaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was just curious, or wondering what it was like for you to look at it. Or maybe she wanted some ideas... which I'm guessing could be good for you. Just put in a tape and let her walk in on you watching it and gauge her reaction.
2007-02-21 13:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOVE the porn!
Tricky getting her to watch it with you, because most of us are taught that "sex is dirty" and "porn is bad". You might "accidentally" turn on Cinemax after dark one night and see where things go.
2007-02-21 13:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Wife Watches It With Me and she enjoys it.
2007-02-21 13:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by bob r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to wath it with you and when she says no tell her that you found her trail on your computer.
2007-02-21 15:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your wife nicely
2007-02-23 22:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋