I never believed in astrology until I met my Aries man. He's a book definition of his sign. I'm a Libra woman... somewhat similar to my sign. While we were dating n engaged, our relationship seemed to be made in heaven. The conflits started soon after we married. We love each other a lot and despite of our fights I want to be with him. I know life is not meant to spend over someone who's not meant to b for you. However, I've a strong feeling that if I handle this intial period of our marriage our relation could be endless. Is anyone out there an Aries man or have an Aries man? Please list out on dos and donts, likes and dislikes of Aries. How to behave when an Aries is upset? How to cheer him up? How to talk to him when he the most untalkative person in the world? How to tell him when he is wrong? How to bring him to listen? I know they are supposed to be like a child interms of selfishness and brutality too that loves fight. But how to explain him Libra is calm and hate fights
2007-02-21 04:30:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
being an aries, the best thing to do if you get into a fight is play the whole passive, cold shoulder act. Seriously if you stick with it long enough, the aries (like myself) will slowly open up and give you a chance to speak what you have to say and listen. trust me give him a chance to cool down and think logicly and he will be more open to your point of view
2007-02-21 04:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by CarlosDeLargos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not an aries woman, and my boyfriend isn't an aries man, but i will answer your question anyways. all couples fight, regardless of their sign.
all couples fight, and the two of you are obviously a strong couple to be able to handle the fights. that's a good sign. lots of couples (after marriage) notice the fighting a lot more. it's b/c you're together all the time. everywhere you turn, there he is. sometimes, you may feel like you're smothered. it causes fights sometimes, too, b/c the two of you are different people, and you won't always agree. it's something to get used to, b/c when you're in the relationship, fights are rare...most of the time. through the beginning of dating, it's like you're on a cloud. he can't do anything wrong, and you think he's great. that soon changes after marriage and getting to know them better. by then, you notice things that didn't bother you before. if you want the relationship to work out, then i think you're doing the right thing. when you fight, discuss your differences, and look at the problem from his point of view...and ask him to look at your side of the story, too. it should work out most of your problems.
good luck!
2007-02-21 05:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being an Aries woman I had a Libra man and we argued until we turned red in the face but our make ups were the bomb. The sex was never boring and we always had a good time together. You should stick it out you got married for a reason and you love him so why give up because you guys have a few conflicts. I am also enclosing something from the yahoo horoscopes section and a compatibility test from the section. Only you can decide if you can see yourself with your husband in the long run.
Aries & Libra
When Aries and Libra come together in a love affair, the inherent polarity of the Zodiac is invoked. Aries and Libra are directly opposite one another in the Zodiac -- 180 degrees apart. Each Sign possesses qualities that the other lacks; combined with Libra's natural yen for harmony, this can be a relationship that enjoys great balance. Aries is the Sign of Self while Libra is the Sign of Partnership, and the differences continue: Aries is impulsive, excitable and ready to jump right into something new and exciting, while Libra is indecisive, peace-loving and prefers a calm, smooth approach. Aries can learn from Libra that their own way isn't necessarily the best way.
These two Signs share the great sexual attraction common to all Signs opposite in polarity. At the same time, though this pair's connection is amazing when it's good, it can be extremely challenging when it's bad. All polarities have energies that tend to tangle or knot if understandings can't be reached. As a combination, Aries and Libra are well-balanced. Charming, cultured Libra can teach brash Aries something about style. Libra prizes harmony in a relationship and will go to great lengths to maintain it. Aries is very decisive and can teach indecisive Libra about relying on intuition for answers.
Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus. This is a great match, as these are the Planets of Passion and Love, respectively. Venus and Mars go well together as they're the two sides of the love relationship coin. They're universally recognized as male and female and this relationship is a good balance of masculine and feminine energy. Venus is about the beauty of romance while Mars is about the passion of romance. What a good combination!
Aries is a Fire Sign and Libra is an Air Sign. Air fuels Fire and helps it grow and spread. Aries can have a very positive effect on Libra's growth, ideas and progress; Aries can help Libra put their ideas into action. Working together can be challenging at times, however, due to their polarity. Aries's fast-paced, impetuous approach to projects may conflict with Libra's more balanced, intellectual approach. However, both Signs have wide-ranging interests, and at the end of a long, active day, Aries can come home full of interesting stories to tell the more cerebral Libra!
Aries and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. They both have a lot of initiative -- but lack in follow-through. They both tend to start things they're never going to finish, whether it's a job, a project, a relationship ... Aries will appear to be the leader because of their energy and forceful nature, but Libra leads from an intellectual standpoint. Both Signs want to be in charge, but Aries uses force and sometimes intimidation to get what they want while Libra uses charm and sometimes manipulation. Compromise is essential to this relationship's health. Diplomatic Libra has a much easier time with compromise than does Aries, who strongly dislikes yielding to another person, viewing it as submission. Libra may have to give in more often to Aries's wishes in order to keep the peace that they so cherish.
What's the best aspect of the Aries-Libra relationship? The harmony resulting from the union of Venus and Mars. The balance between self and other represented by this polarity is a great learning experience for both Signs. Each brings to the relationship what the other is missing, making for a wonderful balance.
2007-02-21 04:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has nothing to do with signs look at psychology this is a clasiscs example of what happens to couple just after marrige
i really would worry it's just how things are a lot of couples are like this after the honeymoon wears off and life settles in
2007-02-21 04:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋