ive chat wiv a guy only twice and he was not nice to me rather but till now i cant forget him. am someone that chat a lot on net and i can distinguish between real and virtual world. but i dnt knw how i fell in love . do u thk its love? ive not chat wiv hm again fear of losing myself.
2007-02-21 04:29:28 · 7 answers · asked by zohya 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
yes and no,
ask yourself these questions first..
Are you sure it is a real guy (not a minor or a female)
Are you giving way too much information about yourself to him?
Are sure he is not a pervert?
Are sure he is not a criminal?
So what I'm saying to be careful. you are just curious and want to know more about him.
another factor to think who started the chat and how he/you find one another?
If he wants to meet you , don't .
2007-02-21 04:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by bleacherbrat34 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you probably shouldn't. For starters, that 'sexy and hot' woman could be a 14-yr-old who clicked the above 18 box, or a sexually confused man, or just a really ugly chick. Actually, I could be a 68 year old man who has nothing better to do than surf Yahoo! and you'd never know. Also, the fact that the only thing you know about these girls is their pictures, not even their true faces or attitudes, makes this lust, not love.
2016-05-24 02:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Nedra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy probably represent someone you would like to meet in person. Use the qualities you've found in him to find someone in person. With that said, i think you are in love with an idea, not the guy you've chatted with. How do you know that you are really talking to another guy, it could be a female!
2007-02-21 04:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by deedabee05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if YOU think it is love, then it is. Love is an abstract feeling that is created in your mind when you feel a certain way about someone. However, I think that online relationships can be very unhealthy for many reasons. For one, you know nothing about the persons personality, if they're honest, if you enjoy their company, and a host of other things.
Overall, it seems like you're yearning for someone to love YOU, but you're looking in all the wrong places.
2007-02-21 04:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Michael K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not love if you've only talked to him twice and he was not nice to you!
I think you need to stay off the Internet for a while and get out and experience the real world.
2007-02-21 04:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've "talked" to him twice, and he wasn't nice to you either time and you believe you LOVE him? I am sorry, but you sound crazy.
2007-02-21 04:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real, virtual, or imaginary - love is love!
2007-02-21 05:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by David M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋