So i just recently moved away from my hometown in January. I used to be really close with my 3 girl friends and now only talk to ONE of them, we were all really close and talked ALL the time. I made an effort in the beginning to keep in touch with them...I was having a hard time dealing with not being there and I would call them and talk to them about it, they didnt really have to much to say...but i guess what is there to say right??? Then after that I barely received any phone calls or anything from the two so I just kinda got the impression that they are only interested in the friends that they have near by....Am I wrong for not putting more of an effort or should I be thinking that they are not REAL friends???
2007-02-21 04:17:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to them about it and listen to what they've got to say that's how you'll know what you did wrong (if you did)
2007-02-21 04:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you are absoloutly right to not continue to keep up contact with them. Since they weren't making the effort to keep in touch with you, why should you go out of your way to keep in touch with them? What you did is justified.
2007-02-21 04:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO your not wrong. Now you know who your true friend is. Now that you move you need to start making new friends so you don't feel to alone.
2007-02-21 04:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. Friend growup and apart. It's normal that this would happen because you no longer have much in common.
Try meeting new friends that want to stay in touch.
2007-02-21 04:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kier22_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence does that to friendship. Try to gt new friends where you are.
2007-02-21 04:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do wrong?
2007-02-21 04:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Phillip P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋