My best friend(girl) says I should stop talking to my best friend (guy) because I'm now in a relationship...
1. she doesn't like my bf because apparently he was 'mean' to her... when she was the 1 tht slapped him every 5mins 4 nothing the 1st time she saw him...
2. Since she's 1 of my friends she knows that i always tel them how i feel about them like 'aww i love u!!'... she feels tht its wrong to say it 2 my guy friends when she does it herself
3. She says I should stop talking 2 him (my best friend),and tht im always looking 4 an excuse 2 talk 2 him when he's the 1 2 talk 2 me 1st nd she's the 1 tht askd him 2 do her project 4 her...
both my bf and her know tht i get along with guys better than i do with girls and my bf is totally fine with it, bt she isnt...
what is she trying to tell me?!?!
2007-02-21 04:16:37 · 4 answers · asked by Rockerfairy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok ppl hav sed stop talkin 2 her enemy...
her enemy isnt my guy best friend...
her enemy is my bf...
2007-02-21 04:38:00 · update #1
People usually dislike not just their enemies but also friends of their enemies. That's why your girlfriend wants you to stop talking to her enemy. Your being on good terms with her enemy bothers her.
Her argument that you should stop talking to him because you are now in a relationship is just a convenient excuse she found in order to promote her own agenda with you.
Of course, if you want to stay best friends with your girlfriend, then you should do as she asks and stop being friendly with her enemy.
2007-02-21 04:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my opinion she trying to make you turn opposite with with your best friend[boy] and i think that you should tell her that you like talking to your friend that what ever happen between theme was between theme that you can have a change that he would not turn out like he did with her.. that you care about the both of theme.
2007-02-21 12:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, I think there is a certain jealousy on her part on how you are with your guy friends. Maybe she is seeing that you are far more better with guys than she is.
2007-02-21 12:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably jealous that you can relate better with guys then she can.
2007-02-21 12:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋