My husbnad thought that I was talking to another guy on the phone and found somethings that I was writing about someone else in my diary. He got into a major accident and thought why should he be unhappy. We separated and he cheated. Should I forgive him? I never told him I was sleeping with anyone and I just wanted attention.
2007-02-21 03:59:16 · 9 answers · asked by intelligent momma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. Forgive him. Don't play games by making him think that you are cheating. That really hurts....OUCH!
2007-02-21 04:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should forgive him, but him cheating had nothing to do with what you were or weren't doing. "PEOPLE" we all have the freedom of free will, we can't go around with the he/she isn't making me happy, he/she cheated on me, he/she doesn't give me any attention. Don't let your husband use what he thought you were doing as a cop-out for his on own personal choice. He had a choice, & made it. Weather right or wrong he made his. He cheated because he wanted to, & didn't have enought respect for you & the marriage. So what you do from this point is up to you & and only you.
Also, all the games have to end!!
2007-02-21 04:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy, you made a stupid mistake! you understand she's on no account gonna permit you reside this down! he's probable basically a pal. She's no longer cheating or something! Suck it up and be a guy! get returned together with her, it style of feels to me such as you understand it rather is the excellent suited determination! females have guy friends. Its organic! I definitely have a lot!! tell her that she will carry with this guy as long as she tells you and enables you to tag alongside. in case you discover out she's putting with him with out telling you, then there's a subject. She might have spent time with him some, probable even flirted, while she became mad at you, yet that became diverse. That became out of anger, no longer via fact she wanted him extra advantageous than you...
2016-11-24 22:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on.Learn from your experience and learn the priceless value of communication. If you had just told him "Hey listen I need attention, I love you can we work at this"
things might be a lot different now.
But now, there's too much bad history between you, I dunno I guess it's up to you.But if it was me, I would move on or at the very least separate for awhile. I would hate him for cheating but I would hate myself even more for lying to him to begin with. It would just be too painful to stay and watch what's left of us disintegrate. Sorry hun, as always, honesty is the best policy.
2007-02-21 04:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he cheat after you seperated? If so could that be considered cheating if you had him thinking that you were involved, even if not sexually, with another man?
2007-02-21 04:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing games and let him know cheating is something you will not tolerate.
2007-02-21 04:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forgive, get even! Make him watch you have sex with another man, that will teach him!
2007-02-21 04:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no if my husband cheated and i found out id just hand him some divorce papers and say see u in court fucka
2007-02-21 04:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by BABi GURl SMiLY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because once he cheats he'll do it again
2007-02-24 16:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋