2007-02-21 03:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by SunBunny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it does. You will never live up to to what your husband sees in porn and it will never satisfy him. Remember men fall in love with what they see. Men will always be attracted to the opposite sex that's the way we were created. But if he truly loves you, you should be enough.
2007-02-21 05:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Creepy 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, it does. Women in the porn industry are 18 to 28 years old and then they are forced to retire. Most men are visual and all they see are these young women. So, as they and their spouses get older and their bodies change, the men become disatisfied. They want a young body like the ones they see on the porn videos. Eventually, they become addicted to the porn. They will try to satisfy themselves by the following methods: chat on-line with other women and meet with them, go to strip bars to hook up with young women, write and answer personal ads and meet with women. Thus porn leads to adultery, which in turn ruins lives and families.
Here is a question below that someone asked Dr. Smalley. You can tell from her question that porn does affect relationships.
Q: My husband who has been looking at porn online and in hotels for over two years has also been comparing my 50 year old body to those he's gawking at. I'm in great shape for a mother and grandmother of my age and I work out and eat healthy. Still it has devastated me to the point that I no longer take my clothes off in his presence, nor will I let him see me nude. He told me that he can't get excited sexually with me, but he can looking at these other women. So, I no longer have any desire to be with him sexually much less take my clothes off for him to criticize my body parts that aren't up to par with those women he's viewing online. How can I "get over it" and not be jealous as he says?
My husband is 60, has a pot belly, grey hair, a sagging chin and wrinkles and yet I still think he's sexy and handsome.
2007-02-21 05:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Porn doesn't ruin relationships...jealousy and personal insecurities destroy relationships!
2007-02-21 05:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Nibbles 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
nothing can ruin a relationship,,,,,if people in the relationship are true to each other no matter what,,trust,,love ,,and not believing anyone else except you two in the relationship,,,,that is what it is all about,,,wish you luck
2007-02-21 07:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by wishing75 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if your married yes
2007-02-23 14:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋