Recently on youtube I discovered a a channel named pointless corner, I found it deeply amusing! I subscribed to his videos, added him as a friend, and he asked me if I wanted to share his channel! Naturally I was honoured, but then he told me he was gay! I was shocked, he certainly doesn't look it! We had arranged to meet to exchange ideas about the channel, but I think I should cancel, or should I?
2007-02-21 03:33:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dining Out ➔ Other - Dining Out
Look you utter retard being gay is not something you catch just tell him your straight. I know i won`t get best answer now but you are so stupid it needs to be said there is no such thing as looking gay I am meant to look gay and have never fancied a man in my life and 2 children. What you are saying is you couldn`t meat up with a girl as a friend so you assume gays are as sexually perverted as yourself. I often don`t like gays not because of there sexuality but i find the camp thing fake and i don`t like fake people but they are not all like that i can`t believe your question
2007-02-21 03:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should cancel as his sexuality seems to bother you he needs to find someone who is mature enough to realise that just as straight men don't fancy all women so gay men don't fancy all men.
His sexuality should not be an issue and it's pretty pathetic that it is to you so no don't meet you would be better off sharing a channel with someone who is more on a level of your own intelligence level I'll leave you to decide whether I think thats high or low
2007-02-21 11:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh for god sake you really dont need to ask this Q gay is a feeling not a disease my brothers gay that doesn't mean that i cant bring boyfriends home incase he bums him!. its stupid just because hes gay doesn't mean he Fancy's every singal man you might not even be his type you liked him before he told you he was gay why stop now i love my bro even more and my fiance and i go gay clubbing with him at the end of the day its still a club, and hes still a man so yes do the channel with him and act like nothings changed you only have to say to him look im cool with it but id rather we didnt go into detail about it.
2007-02-22 09:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~X~*~Chels~*~X~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does gay look like then? I know many gay friends, some are decidedly camp, but most are just regular guys, some tall, some short, some fat and some thin. Some are gorgeous and some are very craggy looking....people in otherwords. If you get on with this guy, share a sense of humour etc, why can't you just be friends?
2007-02-21 11:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever his sexuality it is irrelevant to your being able to work together. You can't 'catch' gayness. As he has been honest and open with you then you owe him the respect of treating him as you would any other person.
He seems to be comfortable with his sexuality so why don't you ask him why he told you. There's a good chance his answer will be along the lines of 'past experience has taught me people often have a reaction to my sexuality. I wanted to be clear where we stood before our business relationship develops'
Your interest should centre around whether you have complimentary skills to make a business work and whether you are trying to achieve broadly similar goals.
One last point if you are female, maybe he thought his honesty would reassure you he wasn't trying to 'hit on you'
2007-02-21 14:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by noeusuperstate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is apparently interesting to talk to and share ideas with and his being gay should not affect that. It certainly is not wrong of you though to express the fact that you are straight if the need arises. There is nothing wrong with being his friend.
2007-02-21 11:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you were told he was gay, you were happy to work with him. Hes still the same person, no matter who he likes. Even if you don't agree with his sexuality and choices, you can still get along. If you're uncomfortable, tell him you don't really know any gay people but you'll try to get used to it. I'm sure he'd understand. good luck, and have fun!
2007-02-21 11:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Leselina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a wonderful opportunity to make a friend! No, you don't have to be gay, but do outline the fact you're straight, and this is your first gay friend. I bet he will be honored that you want still be friends, despite your uneasyness about his sexual orientation. Hopefully, you can both be tactful about sexuality, and become friends anyway.
2007-02-21 11:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancel if you are not gay or open minded to it. I've found that straight people and gays do not mix these days. TOO much controversy. Like, you are going to be labeled bi sexual or something. Hope this answer helps.
2007-02-21 12:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of all the questions on here this has to be the most stupid !! He wants to work with u not f*ck u!!
U really think u are all that !?
Does every gay man fancy other men ??
Do u fancy every woman u meet ??
Oh dear ..... Get over yourself and meet they guy and more power to him for being honest !!
2007-02-21 11:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by jizzumonkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋