Ok, I have a 4 year old son and i'm 22 years old. I was a junior in high school when he was born. The girl and I split up right after he was born and we went our seperate ways. We agreed i would get him on Tuesdays, Thursdays, Saturdays, and half a day Sunday. We've been doing that the whole time and it's worked out fine. We never went to court for anything and had mutual agreements on everything. About a month ago i got a thing in the mail saying she all the sudden wants child support, and different visitation rights. I went to the pre-trial hearing yesterday and they said it was going to be about 465 dollars a month out of my check and i'd see him once a week and every other weekend! To me, that's not right at all because i have never turned my back on my son. He's my best friend and will always be my best friend. On the other hand, i've gotten married since then and my wife and I are expecting in late July. There is no way i could afford that with everything else I have to pay for.
2007-02-21 03:30:46 · 5 answers · asked by Brian L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hire a lawyer.
2007-02-21 03:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, so society these days are becoming intense. One of my family members went through the same thing. It is not right at all unless, there is something more to the situation. You need to step it up, and prove that your an excellent father, and that your son would be perfectly fine staying or even living with you. These days, the court doesn't always favor the mother so, keep faith, and everything will be alright.
2007-02-21 03:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Arizona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a lawyer. Don't let her screw you over in this. If you have n\been there for your son and don't plan on leaving then you should fight for what you think is right.
2007-02-21 03:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by vgibson81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that is right! You guys had a mutual agreement! But now, shes after that money hunny! Nothing u can do really...
2007-02-21 03:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need some professional help
2007-02-21 03:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋