I found in most cases those with similar interests in these areas are generally easier to get along with.
2007-02-21 03:16:21 · 11 answers · asked by graduate_boy 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Yes - it's shallow to judge, but you can't help who you like and you are more likely to like someone with similar tastes. I personally find it boring though if tastes are too similar - it's more fun to learn about something new from someone who has a passion for it rather than just the same thing as you. If you like a person, you can learn to like what they like by listening to what they like about it and trying something new, but if you don't like a person their thoughts about something don't matter to you.
You can't control who you like and don't like - it's a chemistry thing whether it's romance or friendship. You can control how you treat people though and you shouldn't judge or be disrespectful to people just because they have different interests or personalities that don't go with yours.
2007-02-21 05:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Nobody Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to talk to people with similar tastes...yes. We have an easier time relating that way.
I don't judge others though...everyone has a perspective and different interests.
2007-02-21 03:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been asking myself this exact question a lot lately. And, in my opinion, I think it is wrong to judge someone on their music/movie choice. My best Friend and her boyfriend have been dating for a year and have completely different tastes in music, though, they are alike in other ways. True, it is nice to have similarities with someone but everybody is stimulated by different types of music. And, likewise, everyone enjoys different types of movies.
2007-02-21 03:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by kc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not exactly. I Abhor "pop-punk" but my best friend of 8 years loves it. Plus the majority of the people I work with like rap and hip-hop while I enjoy plain old rock and metal. We all get along just fine. It all boils down to how the person acts.
2007-02-21 03:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by alucardgabriev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when someone is referred to as shallow it's because they're more concerned with looks. Generally it's important to have things in common with people you intend on dating or being friends with, however I find that it's also good to have differences as well, me and my husband are almost opposites! And I couldn't imagine it any other way.
2007-02-21 03:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda
although i dont like a certain type of music people call Screamo. ya know...the kids with snake bites and eyeliner. Almost every kid i;ve met that likes that music is fake.
2007-02-21 03:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by Drizzy Fiasco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some cases,take Rap 4 instance it really sucks and it has no meaning at all, what so ever,it is all about uck you kill pig kill my mom kill your mom,the people that listen to that are the ones kill people on the streets.some rapers are low enough to sue thier own mom scum i tell ya
2007-02-21 03:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by ashkicker420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its true, Why do you think people look for things in common when meeting friends or boyfriend/girlfriends.
2007-02-21 03:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the personality is in the person not their music? if you end up marrying someone you wont marry them cause of their musical likes or dislikes you'll marry them for them
2007-02-21 03:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have personal preferences as to why we like certain people. its human nature.
Everyone judges others, we just don't admit it.
2007-02-21 03:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋