one day at lunch me and my friend were eating then my two other friends came along and we had got done eating. After that we got up to sit down on the benches then after that she just stopped talking to me for no reason. i never said nothing and neither did she. we both had no reason to stop talking to each other but it just happened. shes a really good friend and i dont want to lose her friendship what should i do?
2007-02-21 03:08:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In my personal experience, i've always just confronted the person. Ask them what is going on, why you stopped talking, etc. If they have a legitimate reason you can work through it. If not, she might not have been as good a friend as you thought. A very good friend of mine told me (when i was in a situation very much like this) "that toxic people can bring you down. And you are too good a person to have that kind of influence in your life."
If she really is a true friend, talk to her, give it some space and see if it turns around.
2007-02-21 03:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by woohoo219 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a reason she stopped speaking to you, If she's such a good friend why not just ask her what is wrong. You need to remember there's always two sides to a story and besides your version doesn't have enough details which leads me to believe there was more going on. Maybe something was going on with your other friends you weren't aware of and she thinks you were. JUST BE AN ADULT ABOUT IT AND ASK HER, GOOD FRIENDS ARE HARD TO FIND.
2007-02-21 03:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Reen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably thought that you were paying more attention to your other friends and ignoring her. Did you include her in the conversation? She may be jealous because you have other friends besides her. I've been going through that for years with my friends. Some people just have low self-esteem. I have even stopped being friends with some people because of it. It's very childish.
2007-02-21 03:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her the same question just you just asked us. Just be upfront and serious and let her know she is your friend and you just want to make sure everything is still ok between you both.
2007-02-21 03:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her. If you don't want to loose her as a friend then ask her what's up.
2007-02-21 03:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by vgibson81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes jealous of the other friends or she dosent like them.either way that wasnt nice of her...she should at least tell u why...if u have to ask her why..gl
2007-02-21 03:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋