I fall in love with one girl and she also loves me and we both fall in love for almost 4 years. I love her a lot and she also loves me more than me. But the problem is that my parents don't like her and i have told several times to my parents but they don't wanna hear anything. She is waiting for me and she will !!! now in one hand i have my love and in other hand i have my parents and i love both of them. What should I do? Love marriage or arrange?
2007-02-21 02:52:58 · 9 answers · asked by Shari Khan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am 24 years old. I fall in love with one girl and she also loves me and we both fall in love for almost 4 years. I love her a lot and she also loves me more than me. But the problem is that my parents don't like her and i have told several times to my parents but they don't wanna hear anything. She is waiting for me and she will !!! now in one hand i have my love and in other hand i have my parents and i love both of them. What should I do? Love marriage or arrange?
2007-02-21 03:06:44 · update #1
I am 24 years old.
2007-02-21 03:07:15 · update #2
try to find out from your parents their reason for not liking her. then you will be able to decide. i also want to advise you to pray that GOd will change their mind towards the girl. if you are really in love with her, God will touch their hearts and they will give you their blessings.
2007-02-21 03:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this? What is it about the girl that your parents don't like? If you know what it is then real take a look at the problem, because parents most of the time are right as much as we don't want to believe it it's true. If it because of color of skin than that's not a reason and I would say marry her, but if it the way she treats you think I would have some serious thinking......to do, because people don't change unless they want to change and you can't make them change. Take your emotions out of the picture and see what it is your parents sees in her. Then decide. 9 times out 10 parents are right!
2007-02-21 03:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to make your own decisions, then by all means it is your choice. Not always are our family members going to agreed with what we want out of life. They form their opinions and expect you to conform to what they want. If you already know the reasons they do not like your girl, then you have to decide if you see her the same or differently, is she unjustly judged by your family or are you suppose to be in an arranged marriage and therefore you are disobeying your family's beliefts & culture? In the long run, you have to do what is in your best interest.
2007-02-21 03:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're better of asking this question in a language where people understand your culture. In the English speaking world, there are few arranged marriages.
2007-02-21 02:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you aren't going to be living with your parents, I'd have to do what makes YOU happy. You can't marry someone to make your parents happy. Maybe they don't like her for good reasons. If there are no good reasons, they'll eventually come around when they realize you are happy if she's good to you.
2007-02-21 03:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your mature enough you'll make up your own mind and won't care what others say about ya'll s relationship. Especially your parents dude. You must be under 18 ?
2007-02-21 02:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try convincing your parents. If it does not work then talk to girl that your parents want you to marry, and tell her the situation. she will understand and back out.
2007-02-22 14:44:52 · answer #7 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there`s a saying love conquers all and love move mountains.If it is love you will do anything for your love.you love her that you don`t want anything bad to happen.you love her that you want her to be happy because you are happy if she`s happy.if you don`t love her you are not willing to make her happy,that you will do things that will make her go away.so why will do the arrange one?
2007-02-21 03:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by concern Me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out WHY they dont like her, take those thoughts into consideration, if its for stupid pathetic reasons logically, tell them, well, i love her, i dont care what you think, eventually move out, and get away from your parents, if they ruin your relationship because of a girl who has no bad influence or anything, then its to bad for them, and their loss right,
2007-02-21 02:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥Dominatrix♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋