i stared sleeping with my new girlfriend. i use condom almost all the time. i know she is clean. she was virging when i met. and so i am. i told she needs to get on some kind of birth control just in case. she always next week. next day off . and the last answer she gave me was " do you know birth contol is bad for women" i have this feeling that she wants to get preganet.what should i do. i love her.and so does she . but when it comes to this area i feel like she is some one i don't . the trust is not there. and no i don't want to leave her. so please any advice.
2007-02-21 02:36:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
So long you are wearing condoms, it should be fine. When buying condoms, try to choose brands that have better quality control. There are other stuff that you can do.
One measure is to have out your girlfriend's period(the whole cycle). Calculate and avoid having sex during the days when her virgina is lined.
Another thing you can do(which will decrease the pleasure of sex) is...pull out your penis when you are about to shoot and shoot your load anywhere but into her.
The last thing(which i don't think you will do) is not to have sex. =P
2007-02-21 02:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Willy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you love your girlfriend very much and you don't want to leave her. And also you don't want to use condom or be a father. At the same time, your girlfriend does not want to protect her against conception.
So, you have 3 options now in this regard:
1. No sex with your girlfriend.
2. Anal or any other unusual method of sex (avoiding the normal one). And
3. Vesectomising yourself.
You may choose any one of these 3 options as per your wish.
Best of luck.
2007-02-21 11:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Shaheen Rayhan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want a kid. You do want sex. You have to weigh the pleasure vs. the problems.
If you are going to keep having sex, make sure you check condoms for holes before and after. Also, pull out before you "release". That will further decrease your chances.
Actually, if you think she wants to get pregnant, leave her. Seriously. If you don't trust her, and you don't want kids, its obvious that it is not worth the risk.
You could also try other forms of sex that don't result in pregnancy, such as oral/anal or whatnot.
2007-02-21 11:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love each other, Lust each other, or both? Think seriously about what you are getting yourself into. Do you both have health insurance? Can you afford to have a child right now? Has she gone to Planned Parenthood and gotten any advice? That might be a good place to start.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-21 10:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by Antonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! R U SERIOUS!!? DO NOT! PRESSURE HER TO GET ON IT! ITS HER BODY! THERE ARE ALOT OF REASON TO WEAR CONDOMS NOW THAT SHES HAVING SEX SHE MAY WANT MORE IT IS POSSIBLE SHE CAN CHEAT ALSO U! SHE COULD HAVE BEEN BORN WITH A DECEASE ANYWAY THERE ARE SO MANY HORRIBLE SIDE EFFECTS AND COMPLICATIONS W/ BIRTH CONTROL AND EVEN MORE WITH THOSE PATCHES! GO GOOGLE BIRTH CONTROL RISKS AND SIDE EFFECTS! AND LEARN ABOUT THEM B4 U TRY TO PRESSURE HER INTO SWALLOWING POISON EVERY DAY!!! GOD!!
2007-02-21 10:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by SEXY CRML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you dont trust her but you love her. You love her but you dont trust her.....
I'd leave her. She sounds like she wants a baby and unless you're ready to be a daddy, you need to run away from this scammer as quickly as you can.
Or not, and end up married and unhappy.
2007-02-21 10:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply tell her that you have no desire to become a father right now and if she doesn't protect herself she is too immature to have sex with. She needs to realize that you are serious in this. If she won't act responsibly, you may have to leave her.
2007-02-21 10:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make her swallow that will cure the problem cant get pregnant if she does that...i think you 2 are way to young to be thinking of this..she seems like she wants to have a kid and not thinking of all the responsibilities. be careful or get rid of her!!!!!
2007-02-21 14:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by mergy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex until she decides what to do about it. Go see a doctor together.
2007-02-21 10:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Nikkers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stop having sex, that's all. If she will want to have sex she will listen and do the right thing.
2007-02-21 19:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by nyzmostwanted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋