i have a friend who bring great impact in my life...
nw we didnt contact with each other,i just want to forget her..but i just cant make myself to get her out of my mind...how to forget a person?
2007-02-21 02:04:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND.
2007-02-21 02:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are not talking about is why the friendship ended. You have what is called "unfinished business" with this person.Until you understand why your relationship with this person ended, you might be haunted for a long time. What you are doing is obsessing and this is not healthy. See if you can email, talk, or see this person and discuss why you are so distant and what you want to do about it. It is amazing how people split apart and completely misunderstood the other person's point of view.. We tend to feel that people think just the way we do but if you listen to the other person you will find that they dont think like you at all. Something went dramatically wrong if this person and you are not contacting each other at all. There is a serious misunderstanding here if your relationship was as important as you say it was. If you fell in love with her and she could not reciprocate, you changed the friendship. I am not saying that this is the reason but you need to face what the reason was that your frienship ended. You need to know and then you can forget.
2007-02-21 10:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I found myself thinking about my son, I would turn the music up so loud that I couldnt think so I had to sing!
Also I would allow myself a certain amount of time daily to think about him...maybe 1-2 hours per day..then the rest I wouldnt allow myself to think of him.
It was so painful to think about him I almost took my life.
I didnt forget him and never will, but lived though it....He was killed in a tragic accident at 21...my life, my soul, my heart will never be the same but I'm healed.
2007-02-21 10:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by Grogan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this bad now there is two ways this can go someone can come in your life to change that feel or you are going to find you miss them more each day in that case in she is still around use the phone
2007-02-21 10:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by pjlisa13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can forget the person when u thinking in other person.. and do things to get away from your mind... u are strong and u can... good luck
2007-02-21 10:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't forget. Just tell yourself that it's o.k. to miss the good things. And that it's time to move on. Time will help. Just keep busy.
2007-02-21 10:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't think about that person. You probably be better off without her .
2007-02-21 10:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by CindayYEAHYYYY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try keeping yourself occupied with other things. Do things that make you feel happy.
2007-02-21 11:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by naowbei 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't think about them.
2007-02-21 10:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋