like i said i thought alot about this subject and took some advice and really thought about it and about what i comfortable with well im bisexual but i dont no how to tell the friends and folks
2007-02-21 01:59:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Its not really that worth it. Straight kids don't wake up one day and tell their parents, "Oh, by the way, I am straight." Its not how it works. I am a lesbian, and I have never told my parents. I know it wouldn't go over well, and I also know that they wouldn't pay for my education if I did. SOO, they don't know and they probably will never know.
One way to tell them would be to put into a joke or something. I mean, if you have ever seen the movie Bend it Like Beckam, the gay Indian guy says that he really really likes Beckam, so that his friend realizes that he's not interested in her. I guess that would work, I don't know. Maybe just outright saying that you're bisexual would work, whatever floats your boat. Good luck, and I am sorry I couldn't be of any more help.
Edit: Oh, and welcome to the community!
2007-02-21 02:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Waverly Pascale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a couple options. It all depends on how open and honest you want to be with your folks. If you want to be really close, then sit them down and do the whole coming out thing. Build up your confidence first and be prepared to be kicked out. If you kinda want some relationship with them, avoid talking about your love life when you can and if you're cornered say something that outs yourself. If you don't care if they know anything about you and want to get by without a fight, then lie and avoid telling them the truth until you're not dependent upon them.
2007-02-21 03:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell your friends. Mine found out on their own.
2007-02-21 02:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by Myaloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self. if it comes up then just say yes i like men and women. true friends and family will except you for who you are.
2007-02-21 02:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should fight your bi urges. everybody on this earth is capable of being bi but we don't do it because it's apart of our bad nature not our good so resist it and don't tell nobody.
2007-02-21 02:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by veronica r 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first tell your parent ..call a meeting and say it all out then wait for their reaction...they know it not ur making ...u don't choose ur destiny.....so don't be afraid...OK!
2007-02-21 02:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by George 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a psychiatrist. Quick. You need help.
2007-02-21 02:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
just talk to them about it... ask them if it's normal and how they feel about it.... hopefully they wont turn out to be assholes like my parents did........
2007-02-21 02:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋