trying to conceive,, any advice ???

Question

this will be my 4th month trying,, we are dying to have a baby,, any advice ?????

Answer 1

if you're not already keeping track of your cycle, do so with one of the sites suggested earlier... like fertilityfriend.com.
after you know when you're most likely to ovulate, have around 5-6 before ovulation and every day or every other day up until ovulation (and on that day as well b/c it's the best).
be calm, still enjoy sex, don't make it a chore. have fun and try other positions but try to finish in missionary so sperm have better chance of staying in you. after sex prop your legs up for about 30 minutes.
look into getting preseed. it's a lube that helps the little guys get in there faster, as most lubes kill or stop them completely. it's great.
don't get discouraged, it takes most couples an average of a year to conceive.
good luck and baby dust to you!!!

Answer 2

So do you only have sex once a month? I mean is that is what you are doing then you are putting all your chances on 12 times a year. If you have sex more often you increase your chances. I call this machine gunning it. You see if you are very good with a gun then any six shooter will do. I mean you can take your time to aim and because you are good you more than likely hit the target. For the rest of us is easier to use machine gun. Shoot lots of lead in the general direction and eventually one of the bullets will hit the target. The more bullets flying the more likely you are to hit the target. The ovulation cycle is a tricky businness because it is really hard to know with good accuracy when a woman is ovulating. It could be that the math is right but is based on bad assumptions and you might actually be cheating yourself out of a chance by trying at the wrong time. My advice is to do it when you are hrony. Not when the man is horny but when the woman is horny because it increases the chances. You see woman get the horniest during ovulation. Also, give the ma a rest to recover his sperm count. So, maybe not every day but every 3 days or so. Other things to consider is age. As both woman and men age their reproductive system doesn't work quite as well. This is especially true for woman because they are born with a pre determine amount of eggs. As they age fewer lower quality eggs are left so the chances of getting pregnant diminish. This is why people in theur 30's have a hard time conceiving yet, you can't even look at a 16 year old sideways and not getting her pregnant. I know, it sounds low and dirty but is a FACT of life. Is a conflict between todays society and nature. Nature wants you to reproduce young but also die young. Society wants you to wait until you are bale to take care of the kid and live a long life. You must strike a balance somewhere. Other factors will also affect your chances like if you use drug either legal or over the counter. Alcohol, your diet and even the environment you live in. Even stress will affect you. So, you may want to look into this kind of things too.

Answer 3

use something to track your cycles like www.fertilityfriend.com

Remember having sex every day or more then once actually DECREASES the likely hood of getting pregnant. Each month you only have a 25% chance of conceiving and the average couple takes between 8 month and a year to conceive. Remember to RELAX because even a little stress can hinder you.

good luck

Answer 4

It takes a normal healthy couple 6 months on average to conceive. So don't worry yet. If you have any concerns about fertility issues, have some tests done. Especially have your husbands sperm checked. It would be awful to try for too long to ultimately find out his swimmers couldn't swim.

Answer 5

Lynn u sick pervert...lol....that wud wear u out innit.
See if you CAN have a child. R u both perfectly fit in havin a kid? I mean, if u think u can support a child u shud make sure you REALLY CAN....
What about adoption? Instead of puttin MORE kids into the world, try helping some less fortunate ones that exist.......cuz u can alter for how long they will......

Answer 6

Try using this Fertility calculator ( https://www.healthatoz.com/healthatoz/Atoz/tl/misc/duedate/entfert.jsp ) and start taking prenatal vitamins NOW.
And eat foods with lots of folic acid. Have your father-to-be eat these foods too. (Recommended by a fertility doctor I just went to)

---Foods I recently have been eating that have lots of folic acid---
Sunflower Nuts (sunflower seeds without shell)
Malt-o-Meal (I like the chocolate flavor made on stove not microwave)
-----------Others------
Dark green, leafy vegetables
Whole wheat bread
Lightly cooked beans and peas
Nuts and seeds
Sprouts
Oranges and grapefruits
Liver and other organ meats
Poultry
Fortified breakfast cereals and enriched grain products

Source(s):
**A good site about Folican, Folic Acid** Take a LOOK.. :)
http://ohioline.osu.edu/hyg-fact/5000/55...

Answer 7

During ovulation, have sex every other day as this allows sperm count to grow to make more productive deliveries. Also, give yourself a year before you become worried. 4 months is not a cause for drugs, as chance does play a significant role.

Answer 8

use pree seed as lube if needed, take folic acid and prenatal vitamins the folic acid and prenatal will help get your body healthy for a baby. use a siliva scope to see what days you should be having sex on.
check out the book taking charge of your fertility and chart your cycle and symptoms

mycycle.com
fertilityfriend.com
yourdays.com

i wish you baby dust

Answer 9

Ask your doctor for some kind of medicine that helps you conceive...sorry I can't think of the name but he will know what it is when you ask him.

Answer 10

im not a doctor but i know if he dosnt have an orgasim for like a week the voulume of sperm is greater. maby it will up your chances.