Do you ever feel like you just don't fit in?

Question

I seem to introduce friends and they go out together and never invite me. It's most always me that invites other folk.

I am well confused here. What exactly are you on about Circle? I can't disifer what your on about? :o(

Answer 1

I feel like that, but it's what makes me an individual who can't think for myself. I tell you what come on out for a drink with me and we'll not fit in together.
:) x x x

Answer 2

I would bring this subject up to my friends, and then ask them have you done anything to offend them. Talk things over with them. If not, I agree with everyone else by saying that you need to find some new people to hang out with. Finding your place in the world is hard to do and it takes a lot of courage to stand by your convictions or individuality. Once you figure that out; seek people that share your interests. Honey, life is too short to be wasting time being around people that don't appreciate you for you! Well, I hope this helps! Have a nice day!

Answer 3

There is often a reason for this feeling. Like being the last kid to be picked when sides are selected for a game of football.

One must accept that, and focus your direction in life where you are forced to by birth, circumstance, family, and means.

You sound like you feel used and abused. You know that this will happen if you continue to repeat the same behaviour. Therefore, stop your behaviour that causes you to feel abused. In other words do not seek the false reward which comes along with the punishment you do not want. Instead reward yourself with what you were seeking, and punish others who seek to abuse you.

It sounds confusing, but you will work it out yourself.

Answer 4

Not what I'd call friends then!
I think you need to ask why they never invite you if you want to be with them!

I don't fit in! I think I'm from another planet sometimes! What entertains my friends bores me, so they rarely invite me to go out with them, they know I'll refuse. I like it that way though and they know it's not their company I don't want just the activity!

Answer 5

I am sorry to hear that you are not included at least occasionally.
In my circle of friends I am for some reason rather popular. I do not know why really. I could be doing something socal nearly every day, not counting people coming in and interrupting when I am trying to do my uni work.

I hope things change for you!!

--That Cheeky Lad

Answer 6

I not only feel like I do not fit in, I practice hard at not fitting in. Why should I endanger my own set of values, my feelings or my individuality for the sake of others? For that matter, why should or would anyone want to?
Invite yourself to go...if you get blown off...it's time to pick different friends.
Just in case you didn't know...always pick your friends and never let them pick you.
If this friend picking is a constant problem then try picking friends from a different mold than the one you've been using

Answer 7

People used to invite me everywhere, but I like to be alone so I will always turn them down, so now nobody calls me anymore, I LOVE IT! but I would like to start a family one day so I will need a girlfriend. So I will probably have to start going out... damn!

Answer 8

Yes, I always seem to see things in a different light than everybody else, not necessarily bad just "different." They don't get me I don't get them. Kinda sad. Because we can bring to the table some interesting things.

Answer 9

I never belonged anywhere until I chose an extreme lifestyle three years ago. Now I know I'm at home.

Answer 10

I never fitted in. People like me and I'm a fun person to be around, but then after a while they'll gravitate to others and not me, but I don't mind. I don't need alot of people around me it'll takes my focus off of God.