2007-02-21 00:25:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
YOU HAVE TO TRY AND BUILD YOUR SELF CONFIDENCEl Lack of self esteem, a language barrier may be some of the causes-we should make a very conscious effort not to give in to circumstances. it takes time to change and detachment and self-confidence are the only solutions.
any incident that really troubles you---if you analyse it -some sort of involvement and attachment would have caused this. Remove these with clarity of mind and slowly work at detachment--some day you will change FOR THE BETTER.
2007-02-21 00:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by artqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start writing a diary noting every details as on each day i.e. what you do good and even also write all the mistakes you do while expressing..... Write down in the same manner as it happened. For example if you were talking with a girl and could not use proper words while talking then, write that incidence in question and answer format. Use the same words. Then, You will slowly slowly come to know that where you lack. You will improve Slowly Slowly. OK????? Best of Luck.
One thing i should tell you that u r saying that u r having a problem in expressing but, one thing is notable that you expressed this problem very well..... So that's the beginning of Changes being taking place in the directions of improvements on your side.
2007-02-25 05:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sameer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
'EGO' which prevents you to express yourself during certain circumstances. Babies are without any EGO. Babies will not affected by circumstances, they will keep on doing whatever thay like. This is the indication of EGO less person.
Method of removing EGO.
You have to carefully start watching the yourself and change in your thoughts pattern with full awareness whenever you are facing that particular kind of situation. If you are keep on doing this your problem will get solved.
Mediation and Breating exercise will help
2007-02-22 04:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Prabakaran R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to remember that if you are not your self then none one can accept you for the real you. if you are yourself and other people don't like you then they never where your friends in the first place. To be yourself is to enjoy life to its fullness. Hiding behind something your not , will make you unhappy and sad and you will always wonder what if I won't have made this decision what would my life had been. Good luck with your decisions you make in life, may god bless you.
2007-02-21 09:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by bossymom32 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What circumstances you think change your character? Explore, identify and keep off, and you will be okay then!
2007-02-21 10:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sami V 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to speak in front of Mirror, then with friends and after that speak to any strange person in a crowd.
Tell your matter in fewer words but it must be clear and understandable.
2007-02-21 10:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by J.L. S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THINK ALOUD ,EXPRESS YOURSELF CLEARLY IF YOU WANT TO DRIVE YOUR POINT ACROSS. BE SINCERE,HONEST AND EXPRESS YOURSELF.YOU LOOK FOR THE RIGHT OPPORTUNITY BUT CIRCUMSTANCES CAN NOT STOP YOU FROM PUTTING YOUR VIEWS ACROSS.
"TALK LESS. ACT MORE" THIS IS ALWAYS BETTER.
2007-02-22 14:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by NQS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply Keep calm and believe in yourself.
Rgd
Paras Kochhar
2007-02-21 08:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jyoti D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-21 09:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by livankar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget about trying to express your self .. no one wants to hear it anyway
2007-02-21 08:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by phooey 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋