2007-02-21 00:19:48 · 37 answers · asked by Stay@homemom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I consider that cheating hands down. Because even if he isnt actually touching the women he is in the same room as naked women acting very very seductive. Strippers spread their legs and buttocks inches away from mens faces...come on now. If he puts himself in that situation and he's with friends & alcohol is involved that could spell a BIG DISASTER! If one of those women asks him for some sex, how many men do you think are actually going to say no? Thats a set up and I would put an end to that before it could lead to a Dear John note saying he's running off with the girl from the club. Men are too weak when it comes to sex to say no to a sexy woman with a nice body. Sorry but thats the truth. Men act retarted when you have clothes on. let alone if your naked in front of them.....Geezz.
2007-02-21 00:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That depends? Does your man lie about going to the strip club. And it also depends on the type of girls that work at the club, and the type of man you have. Coming from the experience of working in a strip club....i was a dancer. However, i worked with lots of wh***s. And they didn't care whether the customers had a woman or not...all they care about is how much is in their wallets. Now, that does not mean ALL strippers are wh***s, because they aren't. On the other hand, if you and your man are down for it, going to the strip club together can be fun. It just depends on the two of you. Hope that helps you a little.
Like i said to someone earlier, if you are doing something that you feel you have to hide from your significant other then in my book, that's cheating.
2007-02-21 00:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by jewel3977 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on our society, YES IT IS! And it is not different for married our dating, that's why you are married or dating, right? I can understand if you are single, even so it would be hard to explain to you girlfriend-to-be that you go to those places..... She would be thinking of the future (and how you'd be going to those clubs). Societies are different, ours is not as strict as some and not as liberal as others, we have found a medium.
Yes, these clubs are basically a national level of legalized prostitution, where a couple of states in the US it is legal (Rhode Island and Nevada). I’m not going to say that all girls who works as a striper is or does it with some regular clients, but the potential is there. Back to the answer, he is cheating. He married you or is going out with you, so why does he still “comparison shopping”? If he needs the stimulation and is not getting from you, than he needs to talk to you and let you know what is wrong with you (in his eyes) that he has to good look at others naked. Maybe he just lost interest or became de-sensitized (normally happens with too much porno or going to Gentleman “strip” clubs, there’s a contradiction in terms). I’m not going to say that’s not ok to look, this happens instinctively everyday in the streets and other places and heads will be turned now and then, but looking in a strip joint is crossing the line in a relationship, do you think he’ll be thinking of you when he’s in bed with you? Think again.
2007-02-21 02:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by 235 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is not cheating, any more than watching a movie where there is nudity onscreen called cheating. if the person gets sexual favors from a dancer, then yes, that is cheating, but of all the clubs scattered across countless states (and countries) I have been to, I have never gotten myself into a position where that sort of thing might become a problem. If a person is looking to have sexual relations, they will find it, whether at a bar, a streetcorner, on the web, in a library. They have to be looking for it.
2007-02-21 00:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Shredded Cottage Cheese 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I go to strip clubs quite often and it is absolutely nothing wrong with it. It is only a show and it might give you some ideas on how to please your man as well. So, to reward my wife, I took her to a men strip club. At first it was a bit strange for me. But, my wife was happy and excited and that's all it really matters. Perhaps, you should try going with your boyfriend and I'm sure that he'll be happy that you are going with him. Watching the show is not cheating. Touching and other activities is a different story.
2007-02-21 00:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Mui 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I dont think its cheatin as there is no physical contact at all. I recently went to a strip club in Blackpool for a mates 21st birthday. We all had great fun,talking to all the girls,who were all suprisingly intelligent and not at all sleazy. I was open with my girlfriend about it, and she didnt mind at all as she knows i would never cheat, Looking never harmed anyone. However i cant imagine my mum being to happy if the old man admitted visiting strip joint!
2007-02-21 00:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you have to lie about it and hide it, then yes, it is cheating. Some couples are into that kind of thing and go together - others aren't. Personally, i think it us disgusting the way women degrade themselves and the men who watch are showing a huge disrespect for woman - especially the woman they are in a relationship - for my, a guy who would be interested in something like that would not be good enough for me.
And yes - there are guys like that out there. I have been married to one for 8 years - and while he is very kinky in bed - he won't even watch porn because he believes that it would be degrading to me.
Marriage Councillors define cheating as anything where you are giving something to another when you should be giving it to your spouse - there is physical cheating, emotional cheating, etc. In this case - if a man is giving attention to a stripper and not to his wife - he is taking something that should be hers and giving it away - so yes, that would be considered cheating.
2007-02-21 00:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by Chrys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It unquestionably is dishonest and a contravention of your marriage vows. Going to a club and watching participants of the option intercourse take all their clothing off and dance while you scream at them to attain this. Gee, no way that could desire to be seen irrelevant. adequate of this BS that's does not remember the place you get your urge for nutrition as lengthy as you return domicile to devour. PLEASE! All that's, is a lame excuse by using individuals that want to flow and look at somebody different than their considerable different who of course isn't beautiful to them anymore. in case you have been happy and maintain, you does no longer flow to a strip club.
2016-12-18 07:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by gelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not cheating as long as he don't pay for a hot tube, then you could call it cheating. No its not any different than being married or dating. As long as he is there to have a couple beers & kick back & watch a few girls dance naked there is no big deal.
2007-02-21 00:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Going to a strip club, can be cheating, depending on the way of thinking of the person going to the strip club. If they go in to oogle the girls/boys, and WANT TO BE WITH THEM, yes then that is wrong, but that can happen at any place - a club, a restuarant, even at church. If they go for a party and to enjoy themselves in a non-sexual way...why not?
I always take my boyfriend to a strip club for his birthday - in short, if he wants to go, take me with, it keeps me in the back of his mind!
2007-02-21 00:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Honey 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋