I felt in love with a girl in 2000. When I expressed my love to her in 2002 she did not replied for 2 months. after that she blindly rejected my love because of I am not having a good job. She got married with some other person in 2003. Now I am well settled in life. But I am unable to forget her. I still feel my life is a waste one without her. still i am unmarried. I want to die. But I am the only son to my parents. The completly depended on me. Daily I am crushing between life and death. What to do. Please help me. Because of this worry I am unable to concentrate on my career growth. there are lot of opportunities in front of me. Whenever I think of an opprtunity, immedieatly she comes in my mind and i feel that for whome I have to earn. There is nobody to share my happiness. no body is for me. so i decide to end my life when i became alone. I dont know it is correct or wrong. Living with her houghts is horrible rather than ending my life.
2007-02-21 00:13:44 · 11 answers · asked by ravi r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There were times in my life where I lost someone and it hurt so bad that I thought I wanted to die. Eventually the memories of the person went away along with the pain. I now have a wonderful man in my life who makes me very happy. I am so glad that I did not give up.
Don't you want someone to love you for who you are and not just what type of job you have? I'm sure you loved the girl; however, she didn't love you back. That hurts very much but you are not alone. Most of the people in the world have fallen in love with someone who didn't love them back. There is someone out there for you who will love you for who you are. Once you let go of the girl and start to live a happy life you will find that people will start to come into your life.
Please get some help by seeing a doctor for your depression and suicidal thoughts. A doctor can help you overcome this problem. There is a big world out there with many beautiful things in it....all for the taking if you just simply open yourself up to it. God Speed
2007-02-21 00:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by crzynluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is never a solution for anything. If you die your parents will grieve the same way how you grieve for her, infact more than that because you are the only source for them, you are the only reason for them to be alive. What ever it is life has to move on . Instead of thinking about ending life why dont you live for your parents, why dont you feel happy by taking care of them, why dont you take up those opportunities, earn money and do some social service, you can help orphan people, old age people and do lots and give meaning to life by becoming an example for many people.
2016-03-29 05:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a doctor as soon as possible. You are depressed. When you are in a depression all you can see is a dark tunnel, you cannot see light at the end of the tunnel. But there is light, there is another woman that you will fall in love with. But you have to be healthy minded for her. We all have difficulties and disappointments in life you are not alone. Realize that God has another reason why that relationship didnt work out. God has a plan and there is a woman just right for you around the corner. Have faith that there is happiness in store. Please seek help as soon as you can.
2007-02-21 00:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have not accepted the truth here, if she left u because of the job, she was not worth it anyway. u have no one because u are so far back in the past right now. your life is not a waste, we all have a purpose in life. suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. just because of what was done to u, it should not define who u are in life. there was a reason why u did not marry her, only u see it as some sort of punishment. go find a new person to love, as the one who left u is not worthy of a love like yours. ask god what to do? he is the only one that can help u in times like this.
2007-02-21 00:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Ravi, buck up.
Adopt the attitude that the b1tch does not know what she is missing.
Go find a woman who is more interested in you than your money.
Give up on that dream and go find another.
Please understand that there is NO WOMAN worth killing yourself for. There are far too many of them around who are looking for a decent man to do something stupid over. Especially one who is only looking out for your wallet. She would not be worthy of your love.
This is where I say forget her and get yourself back on the market.
2007-02-21 01:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she rejected you simply because you didn't have a good job at that time, are you sure you want to waste your life over her?
anyway, we can't do anything about your depression, you need to seek professional counseling for that, and soon. try to achieve a state where you don't need anyone else in order to be ok (not necessarily happy, but ok). even if there were a nuclear holocaust and you were the only person remaining, you should be ok. try to visualize that.
2007-02-21 00:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you fall in love you expect it to last forever i know that, you need to learn to trust again, she has hurt you pretty badly by the sounds of things.
It may have been your first love i dont know, first loves are always hard to get over, and you will always remember your first love no matter who your with.
life it a precious thing given to us by are parents, my mum always tells me i was a mistake but love me more than any thing in the world and i am the best thing in that ever happen. your parents love you very much.
each day will get easier, take your time. Love will come to you when you least expect it to, build on you career! Dont end your life we all get set backs, some people take a long time to get over things but it will happen.
good luck
2007-02-21 00:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by lolly12341812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. She is married and no longer available.
What part of NO don't you understand?
Move on. Find another, there are plenty elegible women seeking marriage.
Goodl uck
2007-02-21 01:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is not a failure in love, but a failure in lust. Things will fall in places eventually. You'll find someone new to lust for. Quit worrying kid
2007-02-21 00:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why arent you looking for someone else?
she was a NOBODY, and you need to forget her!
move on!
2007-02-21 00:16:39 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋