Well my husband I tried to have a baby for a year and on month 12 it finally happened. Although we lost our baby 10 weeks later to a miscarriage. It has been 3 months and have been trying but havent had any luck. Any Tips???
2007-02-21 00:12:38 · 8 answers · asked by Glenna 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
hi there really sorry to hear about your loss, hope you all doing ok.
the only advise that i think actually works is to stop thinking or planning to fall pregnant and let nature take its course, go on a nice little get away just for the two of you and try not to think about you falling pregnant, you are stressing yourself out by thinking about it and stress is one of natures strongest contraceptives, relax and try to think of other things and i assure you once you've relaxed and gotten your mind off it, it'll be time to start buying those cute little booties!
best of luck and will be waiting to hear what her or his name is!
mote it be, just a blessing for the two of you!
JC
2007-02-21 01:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by graphicjean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say first how sorry I am for you loss. I know from personal experience just how hard soemthing like that is but it is important to remember that all hope is not lost. I have a girlfriend who had 3 miscarriages in her early attempts to have a baby. After the first she learned to be cautious about early pregnancy and after the thrid she went to a fertility specialist to see if she had a problem. The dr explained to her that this is the bodys natural way of getting rid of a "bad pregnancy" or basically there was sonething incorrect about the fetus or the implantation process. There was nothing she was doing wrong and she and her husband were both reproductivly healthy. Soon after this she became pregnant again and had no complications. She feels that just knowing from the DR that they were both fine helped her relax and now they have three beautiful children and have had no fertility issues. I hope that this story helps you. Just remember to relax...TTC is stressful but just have fun with it and I am sure it will happen for you and your husband. Good Luck!
2007-02-21 00:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Adams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think there is anything anyone can do about that. I had 3 miscarriages and now have 3 children. I went to so many doctors and had so many tests done. Finally. Just keep your cool and have fun trying and it will happen. You have already been pregnant once so you know you guys are able to have a child. When God decides, he'll give you one. By the way, sorry to hear that your babe died. Best of wishes. Later. Don't stress out about it because stress is not good for your body and maybe that's why. ok, now i'm leaving. bye
2007-02-21 00:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through a similar situation. I had 2 miscarriages back to back (both @ 8-10weeks) and so, I focused on becoming healthier. I ate prenatal vitamins, worked out 30 min. a day, and did not try to get pregnant, but I also did not take birth control pills. Well, 6 months later, I was down 3 dress sizes and became pregnant with my youngest!
Just enjoy intimacy (and a lot of it!) with each other, just for the fun, and love of each other. If you "do-it" just to procreate, it will get very sterile and not-fun!
2007-02-21 00:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by Pekoe90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I lost our first child in a miscarriage and the doctor told us to wait a year before trying again due to mental anguish. He also said that usually you miscarry once. The body rejects the embryo because it would not have been healthy. So whatever you decide to do good luck and try and keep your head up.
2007-02-21 00:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by INFOBUSTER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As difficult as it is, try to relax and don't stress over it. I had one miscarriage, one child, two miscarriages and another child. There really is truth to the saying of things happen when you least expect them. Do other things together, enjoy yourselves, have fun, don't let trying to become pregnant and worrying about staying pregnant consume your every thought. Enjoy life with each other. Don't you agree that things usually turn out better when you're happy and stressfree (or at least as stressfree as you can possibly be), than when you're stressed and on edge? Hang in there!
2007-02-21 00:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying.
I did, and one cycle later I was pregnant.
Ive heard it works for a lot of women.
2007-02-21 00:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have faith in God and he will bless you and your husband.
2007-02-21 00:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by georgiapeach4lyfe 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋