he left the house to hang out with a friend. it was still logged onto his myspace. i got curious and checked his emails. i found an email to a girl that said "yeah, you're hot... :P" it was the only one i found to her and it was pretty recent. i asked him about it and he said she asked him if she was hot so he told her she was. why would he do that?! couldn't he just ignore her? was he simply being nice? or is there more to it...
2007-02-20 23:04:41 · 13 answers · asked by pyrate girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You snooped because you are insecure. Take it as a compliment that another woman thinks he is hot. By snooping and getting into his face you will drive him to having an affair. Be secure in your relationship, openly communicate. He didn't share it with you because he knew you would react the way that you did. Face it girls, your man gets hit on about as much as you do out in public. Do you tell your man all the times you get hit on? Of course not. So why are you surprised when he doesn't?
2007-02-21 00:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well were you to ask, I would say your sad avatar is not hot.
It could be hot with a smile. What do you think? Put a smile on that face and it would be very hot.
I've been married for a long time. Do you think that part was cheating?
Look, the internet allows people to have some interesting correspondence some of which involves webcams.
But that kind of comment is really a bit benign isn't it.
There are many issues which come your way which are a problem. This is not one of them.
Cheating requires physical contact. Conversation is not cheating.
Let it go.
2007-02-20 23:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, think about his reaction when you asked him about it. Was he upset, indignant, defensive? Did he get upset at you for looking at his myspace account(I still don't understand the allure of that site, I think of it as more of a teen's/childish site)? If he didn't display any negative feelings at you for looking at his profile or asking the question, I don't believe there is anything to worry about.
What's dangerous to a relationship is setting such rigid rules. Communications with the opposite sex are not evil, they are just communications. If a man asks me a question on IM or other methods that doesn't seem trollish to me, I don't think my husband would mind, and the same if it happens with my hubby. He plays an online RPG, and I know there are women that play that game and he talks to them all the time.
2007-02-20 23:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by littlevivi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that this is your boyfriend or husband??? If so. They don't have the right to communicate with other women. Unless it's business or you know this person. The computer is dangerous for relationships. It's great to meet someone when your single. But there is simply no reason to communicate with anyone when you are already in a relationship. Regardless if it is play or something else. Sounds like he might be searching. Even if he says he isn't.
2007-02-20 23:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Was she hot? LOL!
No girly I wouldnt get upset. Myspace is crazy anyways and people usually "bear it all" over there. As long as he didnt say anything like "call me" or "give me your email address" I wouldnt worry about it. He will see other pretty girls but what matters is how he treats you. Dont even worry about that. :)
2007-02-21 00:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a hard thing to repair once it has been breached, you both have trust issues, you have to decide if you want to share your body with someone that you suspect of stepping outside of the relationship boundaries, ch3ck him now or you will be in for a lifetime of the games!
2007-02-20 23:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She could be friend of him. And to me, she can ask it? Hot comply with beauty. And praising anybody is good. Your husband has the courage to praise beauty. On the other hand he should also praise you and your beauty.
2007-02-20 23:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by dibesic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is checking out other women. Sounds fishy to me. This myspace crap is nothing really but a dating site.
2007-02-20 23:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its nothing...if u find a change in behaviour then u should be fishy...a woman can tell if her man is onest or not
2007-02-20 23:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you with someone who is old enough to live on their own and still logging into myspace........
2007-02-20 23:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by abc 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋