My mom is still dating this loser named mikey who doesnt have a car or a job and I freakin hate him.I am 14 years old and I dont take kindly to new men, but especially this guy.I'vv tryed talking with her it doesnt help the only thing to do is to somehow break it off myself please give me some ideas.
2007-02-20 22:51:03 · 9 answers · asked by Jaye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you try to pull them apart it might make her want to be with him more. I would suggest just trying to avoid him - it is probably just a phase - or tell someone your mother is close to how you feel and see what they suggest.
2007-02-21 01:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey infant: Your sister did no longer stab you in the lower back. Your mom and sister will consistently love you and be there for you....a guy won't consistently. Yep, there are reliable ones, and he will take place. in the journey that your mom says he's a loser, then, sorry babe...he's. journey and instinct consistently win. Congrats on paying your training, working and school finished time: wow! you're a reliable occasion for different youthful women, the GPA, paying costs and lease. Yep stunning pastime, you need to be pleased with your self. have faith me, been there performed that. mom knows. calm down, take a cool look. Do a con and professional checklist approximately b/f. flow out, you loose. you think of they do no longer love you, yet they do and additionally you comprehend it. you comprehend what's suitable.
2016-10-16 04:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My god, I know how you feel! I've been in exactly the same sitch for 4 years, but TRUST ME, do not interfere. If he is really a loser, your mum will have enough sense to ditch him, but if you say something to her or try to break them up, you could end up in a bad relationship with your mum, kicked out of your house, or make her very sad and upset. Leave it to them to sort out. Give them a lot of time alone together so she gets to know the real him. You never know, maybe she wont like it! This way you feel no guilt!
2007-02-20 22:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bambi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes evil ways don't just works.Not siding your mum,but is there any good qualities inside him that you MAY like?Well,i don;t reaaly know why you are really hating him if he completes your mum life?Maybe you should give yourself time not to overjudge him..But if he is really giving hell,Approach the man straight to the face and told him off.:I HATE YOU''--?>and it should be in front of your mum so she knows to how extent your hatred for him is.Not just sayings but actions that the person sees.Believe me they won't ignore this ever since.(but i don;t really recommend you doing this as your realtionship with your mum might be affected)Lastly,last suggestion,ignore them.
2007-02-20 22:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by Angel_Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show how you support the idea of having him in the family. Ask him to teach you anything that you might have find difficultie in. Ask him to go out with you and try to be his child...
How will he react? if he loves you for it, then he might have second chance to be your step father, but if he is a loser, he will be gone forever immediately!
2007-02-21 00:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Goombul! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship doesnt affect you then you should stay out of it. The only time that her affairs becomes your business is when it directly contributes to your well being. She will figure out who is in time but her relationships doesnt need your approval-shes the parent and youre the child.
2007-02-20 22:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You wouldn't want Mom, to force her thoughts on your Life? Don't meddle in to hers. Just be the Son, that she needs. She'll decide what to do. When the time is right. Love is respect. You need to respect the Adults.
2007-02-20 22:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this way I guess you would approve of your mom running off any girls you liked that she didn't. Hmmmm you better think about this.
2007-02-20 23:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lucinda M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch "Home Alone"
2007-02-20 22:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋