well theres this boy and i really like him and the other day i went round his house he is such a lovly person i would do any think for him and we started kissing and laying in bed then we had sex and omg i love him so much but now hes like oh i dont know when i can meet you next and he has loads of freinds who are girls and he see them more than me and he wont be my boy freind because he has loads of girls that like him and he recons it would be unfair on them but he allways say that he loves me and i just want to be with him so badly and i dont know wat to do to get him to be with me iv tryed everything please help me! xx
2007-02-20 22:43:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think you deserve other man...i mean reading the things you are saying about him,i think you have to move on!you know,i know that it is not easy to do but if you will really try you can surely do it.i mean,there are so many fish in the ocean and you don't deserve this kind of treatment from a guy.
this guy i think just take advantage over you...and please don't you ever run after for a guy that always find excuses whenever you approached him.find another guy to love because i think you don't want to settle to a LOSER,right?good luck gal...
2007-02-20 22:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by alezhandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a freak!leave this guy man!He's no even brave enough to choose which girl he reali likes and giving reason like oh i cant be your bf because i have other girls who like me?What kinda reason is that?So the sex was not out of love ?Ask him that.Ask him what he treat you for?When you said that he dunno when to meet you next after the sex night,and saying that he sees them more than you.I just feel that he had just took advantage of your body.Argh,,feeling so frustrated for you for being treated like this.And you,you shouldnt do sex too soon to him pal.. Come on there are other guys who are worth your love more.
2007-02-21 00:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Angel_Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh...hmm...
see, that's why i always tell my single friends don't go and have sex straight away. Let him fire himself looking for you, thinking of you, and even dying for you day and night. Until you get what you really want if you are really in love...
Why do you think last generation most women didn't have sex before marriage? So that they could manage to drug that man in their wings...
I don't agree in that very old fashioned way, but also i do not agree in a quick 'oh get what you want now' situation with a man.
I like to let a man flame on fire for me, why should i be easy like you were?
Your next 'i fell in love with him' - new guy, try to play hard, so they suffer for you..... until one day someone can ask you for more love and effection, not your body...
2007-02-20 23:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Spark S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to tell you but he used you and his probably using all the other girls, your best bet is to move on and find some one who respects you and wont use you. If he really liked you or loved you like he says he wouldnt worry about any other girl that likes him he will only be worried about how you feel, and his not worried about that because his not with you.
Your better then that and show him that by moving on and not caring when he calls act like you dont care be the bigger one dont let him see that what his done has affected you because it will only make him feel better guys like that dont care if you get hurt so be strong.
2007-02-20 23:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has sex with u he has a unwritten responsibility. it is so evident that he is making excuses. u do not need a guy who does not care. i m sorry but u hav 2 forget abt him unless he comes up personally 2 u ans says he wud like 2 be ur boyfriend
2007-02-20 22:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your not going to get him
he used you for sex that's all !!!!!! he tells you he loves you because its what you want to hear and that's how he gets you to have sex with him
and you don't love him its lust/infatuation
i would go get tested for STD's and Pregnancy test
stay away from him
find a nice boy who will like you for you not sleeping with him
SRY BUT THE TRUTH HURTS SOMETIMES
2007-02-20 22:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not going to get him
2007-02-20 23:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him
2007-02-20 23:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋