i am 17 but everyone around me wants to have sex but i dont......alll my life i have never been interested
2007-02-20 22:42:09 · 20 answers · asked by teenchatter10 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I'm a 50 y/o woman who has watched life for a number of years. What I find about society today is the pressure for kids to have sex. The girls are as predatory as the boys in this department and I've felt sorry for guys that maybe don't WANT this kind of intimacy right off the bat. The pressure must be terrible for them. After all, it's the most intimate exchange that people can do together. Imagine the fear of being naked with someone that you hardly know.
My point here is that you shouldn't feel that you MUST have sex. It will happen for you when the right person comes along, somebody that you feel comfortable with and in that way the experience will be beautiful and memorable for you - not just getting your rocks off.
((hugs to you)) sweetie.
2007-02-20 23:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by soaplady99ca 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are a 17 year old male you should be thinking about sex 100 times a day and have a very strong to desire to copulate with somebody [s]. That is a biological fact of life and has absolutley nothing to do with the mores of the society you live in. The fact that you don't could very well indicate that you have an hormonal imbalance and as such should see an MD to get to the root -no pun intended- of the issue.
Good luck
2007-02-21 10:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was probably the same at 17. Don't worry. It'll all happen later. In your case, "all my life" probably refers to just a few years (since puberty). Things fall into place when the time is right. Just enjoy growing up without being pressured to do things that you don't want to.
2007-02-21 17:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Florio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some people who are uninterested in sex. To avoid relationship problems you should look for a partner who shares this view.
If think this may be a medical problem you could consult an endocrinologist
2007-02-21 08:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by jonnyraven 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people have a lowered sex drive; if it works for you, then it works. Do not compare yourself ot others in the realm of sex, as it will drive you crazy
2007-02-21 08:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people get the desire early in the teens others not to much later. You will know when your ready. Don't do it because everyone is doing it, just do it when your ready.
2007-02-21 07:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Dimi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well dont worry about it then, go with what you feel is right with you, when you meet the right person you,ll know when the time is right so just chill.
2007-02-21 07:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by raceybird 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO....
ALL YOUR ENTIRE LONG 17 YEARS OF LIFE...OMG...
Dude... ya just hit puberty not to long ago...you're still a baby for God's sake. Focus on you, school, sports, hobbies, cause once you do get p*ssy fever....ask any man...it's on!
Consider yourself lucky, for now.
2007-02-22 09:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have no desire doesn't mean there is something wrong with you.Try not getting stressed over people who are walking Phalic symbols.
2007-02-21 07:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Student 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is not a problem
if you donot want sex then do not do it wait till you feel the urge
2007-02-21 08:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋