One of my friends cannot have a real relationship with anybody, I mean to love and get involved.
All his relationships are the same and end up in the same way: she realizes that the he doesn't love her...and it's all gone.
He asked me what should be the cause for it and I quite didn't know what to answer, because he wishes to have a real relationship on long term with somebody, not just simple affairs.
What do you think about the matter? Is he risponsible for it?
2007-02-20 22:41:25 · 6 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He sounds like he holds back to prevent getting hurt. He should let the guard down and let the lady get to know all of him and he should be open to her.
2007-02-20 22:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello daria!
His thinking is right when he says he wants to have a long term relationship ,not just simple affairs.
He obviouslly has not found the right girl yet.
Best thing to do is date girls but just enjoy the friendship and leave the emotinal part out of it.
Don't get the cart before the horse.
Take care!
2007-02-21 07:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like he been hurt to many time, an getting in to a relationship , some time is a scarery thing,, for men so it harder ,why i dont know, i guess we thing we not good enought to have a women to love us, are , are it thinking we , cant make the person happy,, now this go to women an men, both will put up a wall to keep ,a person in getting to close, ,,now the way to bring the wall down, if a women are man love a person, you got to stay, an fight for the right to bring it wall down
2007-02-21 06:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His Heart isn't in it! And the Heart is where the action is. It's not having Sex. It's not being seen with someone. It's two Hearts, beating in tune. It sounds silly? But it's the truth. Be sure that you're In Love. And not just with someone to be together. Someone will get hurt if you're not!
2007-02-21 07:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is most likely choosing emotionally unavailable people on purpose. I did this for the longest time and its a hard habit to break but can be done.
2007-02-21 07:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a fear of committment... Maybe he needs to see what happens in the relationship... Is he attentive to the woman??? does he ignore her???
2007-02-21 06:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋