Hiya, i had a still born baby in 2005, strangest thing is, i got pregnant, on the pill, didnt know i was pregnant till i was ready to give birth at full term. Im trying to concieve, we're not taking it seriously, with all the temperature testing etc but we're just taking it steady, i came off the pill in may last year and i still havent concieved... is there anything wrong?
2007-02-20 22:23:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
so sorry for your sudden loss, it can take a healthy couple up to a year to conceive so dont worry yourself thinking anything is wrong because it isn't. my hubby and i are trying for baby no:2 and we have been trying for 6 months although i fell pregnant with my first straight away. give it until may and then speak to your doctor, it might be worth buying some ovulation tests just to confirm you are ovulating, that way you'll know nothing is wrong now xxxx good luck
2007-02-20 22:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by louise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Let me say how sorry I am that you had to go through that experience. I hope you and your husband have had time to heal. My first suggestion would be to see you Dr and make sure everything is ok for TTC. I don't think there is anything wrong with tryng since last may..it take most healthy couples a minimum of 6 months to conceive and they say you dont need to consult a dr foe fertility issues until after a year of trying. I wouls see you OB just to make sure you are in good health to start trying and if nothing by this summer maybe your husband can get checked. Good Luck
2007-02-21 00:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Adams 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt think anything was wrong as you concieved the first time,the pill can take a while to completely come out of your body and for true cycles and ovulation to return if i were you id start taking your morning temps so you can see you are ovulating and if your not visit a docter
2007-02-20 22:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage. No way does that mean you will have a still birth. My sister had a miscarriage then had a healthy baby boy. I had one last summer and am pregnant again. This time around everything is fine. If there is something wrong with the baby in the beginning a miscarriage is your bodies way of taking care of it. After 32 weeks you are at the Dr all the time and they will be able to tell if something is wrong.
2016-05-24 01:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Carmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for loss, my wife and I have also experienced still birth aswell as infant loss but we are expecting our 3rd baby 2mrw so there is hope, your body may still be recovering from the still birth or you could even be 'trying' to hard for a baby. It will more than likey happen whan the time is right. If your having regulaer periods then I wouldnt worry to much however if your periods are irregular or you have been trying for longer than 18mths then see your gp for some basic fertility tests. good luck
2007-02-21 04:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
more than likely nerves....this happened to my wife and I as well so I understand you. You have my deepest sympathy. After about 10 months my wife got pregnant again and since then we have had 5 kids. One thing that we did was to pay sure as to when she was ovulating. You dont need to do the temp thing - just pay attention to the ovulating time. When it is prime time to get pregnant is when you have a discharge that looks very similar to egg whites. If it is stretchy make love and you will get pregnant. Good luck.
2007-02-20 22:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by bufalo1501 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
so sorry to hear of your loss it must have been a terrible shock, i do not think there is anything wrong it just takes time and the more you worry yourself over it the longer it will take, try to relax a little and you will be pregnant in no time, good luck
2007-02-20 22:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by tracy w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear your sad news .it can take up to a year for the pill to come out of your system as thats what happened to me..im 5months now and having a girl in june...best of kuck for the future and dont worry it will happen in time....
2007-02-20 23:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE HAD 2 STILL BIRTHS, THERE WAS A GAP OF 6 YEARS BETWEEN THEM AND MY LITTLE GIRL THAT I HAVE NOW, IT WILL HAPPEN JUST TRY NOT TO MAKE IT THE CENTRE OF EVERYTHING YOU DO , AS STRESS DOES PLAY A BIG PART IN CONCEIVING, YOU TAKE CARE AND I WISH YOU THE VERY BEST, YOU DESERVE IT!
2007-02-20 23:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take time just try not 2 stress hun and i understand abut ur loss i have been there myself but have since gone on 2 have 4 others so it will happen.
2007-02-20 23:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋