I feel so lonely and that nobody loves me! How can I make it show how I feel and care for someone to be my best friend. I am talking about a really good freind! Not just anybody!
2007-02-20 21:55:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It takes time to find a really good friend. Its a two way relationship. If you are lonely you must force yourself to go out. Go to a club or a course where you are forced to work and talk with people. You are more likely to find a friend that you have something in common with somewhere like that. Then just be yourself, and be friendly, generous (but not excessive) and thoughtful.
2007-02-20 21:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by JJ88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do things to attract people to be friends with you, it doesn't work that way.
It takes some time to build friendship.
But you can speed things up.
When you say "trust", it isn't something minor.
In fact, a friendship is not real one without trust. You have to have faith in your friends. They also have to have faith in you. You have to gain their trust in you. To do that, make sure you know how to keep secrets. Whatever happens next, do not reveal your friend's secrets. Sometimes, there may some kind of a test on trust. Anyway, just be careful of what you say. Make sure you don't spill the beans. And don't betray any of your friends for someone better.
To build up love is a different thing.
To care and love your friends are somekind of feelings and thoughts that you'll eventually have within you. Love that comes from inside you. You can love your friends by helping them when they need you most, do your best to care and protect them. At the same time, you have to tell them off if they do somehing wrong. That's also call love, wanting them to change their ways by talking to them nicely, lead them to the correct path in life.
Treat your friends equally, you may love one better than the other. It's not wrong to do that. But make sure that person doesnt feel left out. Try to spend time with them. If you are destinied to be friends for life, of course, the bonds between you and your friends will grow stronger and stronger each day.
Try to avoid conflicts too. Peace is always the way out.
Honestly speaking, it's not that easy to find someone whom you can trust that easily. It really takes time. Time is what you have to give. Just try to make friends first by gaining their trusts and not popularity. I'm sure that one day, someone will come to you and you'll find that someone trustworthy. And that you can tell him/her how you feel, everything that you think you need a listening ear. A friend should do things willingly. So yea..hope it works.
All the best!
2007-02-20 23:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by FSC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend is someone who is there with u whether u are happy or sad and u return the favour. someone who will keep ur confidences and support u.
am sure u have many friends. is there any of them that u will like to get to know more? so talk to that person and get to know them by spendin time with them. see how they behave around u, if they are sincere or not. as time passes, u will find out if that person will be a good friend or not. it doesn't happen overnight.
2007-02-20 23:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a friend that u might want to be a best friend try being open with them enough and also take time to care about them and develop a trust with them. if that dosent work it's ok, best friends come at the right time exactly when you need them...hope this is what your lookin for!!
2007-02-22 15:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by cherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By having sincerity of purpose and dedication. Above all, integrity is a must, in relationships of trust and faith. Even otherwise, integrity is an essential - in fact, the most important - component of honorable life.
2007-02-20 22:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hold anything back. Express your true feelings, whatever they are. Have no hidden agenda. Be there for them as much as you want them to be there for you. Share your misery. Share your joy. Be patient. True friendships take time.
2007-02-20 22:08:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a dog
2007-02-20 22:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by john b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have A friend? if yes, then hang out with them alot and have fun, i think then your best friends (unless the other person has already got a best friend, then you are still just friends)
2007-02-20 21:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in my experience best friends hurt you more than anyone else.
I have learnt to just have 'normal' friends, and not wear my heart on my sleeve.
2007-02-24 21:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋