ok i realize that i am walking on thin ice here and i realize that this assumtion doesnt apply to every woman, so here i go. i just seems that if a man is successfull enought to allow thier wife to stay home and not work for a few years that they will never want to go back to work, why is that?? i mean i am a professional and make a good living, so my wife stayed home for a few years while the kids were young. now that the kids are old enough to tke care of themselves she doesnt want to even work part time. the same thing happened to friend of mine as well. so why do you ladies get so damn lazy?? should this be a warning to men to never let thier wife stay home or what????????????????????
2007-02-20 21:53:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a stay at home mom and a homemaker. My daughter is now 14 and it seems I am busier now, then I was when she was younger. Everything that needs to be done here at the house...I do. I play chauffer to her and her friends. Make sure she gets her homework done. I cook...clean..do the laundry...and the yardwork. I get up at 2:00 a.m to make coffee for my husband before he heads off to work. My day starts early and ends late. Plus I try to find a little time during the day to paint (I'm an artist) but my family and my home are my first priority. All the stay at home mom's and homemakers I know are not lazy....they work just as hard, if not harder then their husbands. Just because your wife isn't out working making money, doesn't mean she is lazy. Is your house clean? Is your meals cooked? Is your clothes washed? Are the kids being taken care of? If you can answer yes to those questions.... your wife isn't lazy. Perhaps one week-end you should do everything she does in one day all by yourself. I bet she wouldn't seem so lazy then.
2007-02-20 22:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you "let" your wife stay home; perhaps that should have been a mutual decision that your wife chose for her job to be in the home taking care of the house and children while you chose to work outside the home. You will be glad she chose to stay home when those kids are teenagers, they need more supervision at that time than they do when they are two. Perhaps you should do what she does for a week and decide if she is really lazy or not.
2007-02-21 05:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off i am NOT LAZY as you call us women, i am 49 and my husband does not want me to work at all, he makes enough to pay the bills and then some, the reason he tells me i don't have to work is because he says i already have a job and that is taking care of him and our home, our kids are grown so think about it this way, your wife already has a job she makes you your food and cleans the home does your laundry etc, so you start giving her a paycheck seeing how you just wanna bi*** about it.
2007-02-21 06:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Denny O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is what it is. Her life became about her kids, and then slowly it became about what she does around the house. The thing you really have to watch out for is her getting bored and discontent (that can sneak up on you), or perhaps she's just doing what lots of men do at this point and taking the relationship for granted?
I don't know what to tell you except at least she isn't running around with other men, right?
2007-02-21 06:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same as men
2007-02-25 00:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋