after a very long relation we human are involved in a knot with him/her
in very strong relation. You did each and every possible thing for him/her but if he/she calls u suddenly and says i don't want to marry with you
I am not interested in you. Totally unexpected which you u had never imagined in your life even. Than how would you react?
2007-02-20 21:02:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont be pessimistic..its not good for ur health
2007-02-20 21:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is indeed shocking after such a long period. It happens many times and time heals. We are human beings, the life must go on. There are lots and lots of things to do in life and achieve in life. Getting partner for life is one of them. It happened with my best pal. Almost similar situation. All was going well and all of sudden the girl told him that she cannot marry him because her ultimate target was USA. She wanted to marry some one so that she can reach there in shortest possible time. The guy broke as he never expected this to happen. But now, he is stable. The memories will never go but in life other things are to be done. Be man. Initially it is very difficult but once you make up your mind and target next goal, you will find it very easy. Time heals every wound.
2007-02-22 04:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by AHP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be practical, first of all try to know the reason, otherwise be patient and say OK I honour your decision. Life is like that and you have to move further, Keep some good memories with you and if the other person is not willing to continue then you cannot pressurise for the relationship.
2007-02-21 05:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by reema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is tricky....you never know when will the partner says that they are not interested in u!!!!If you have already loved for that long only option is get married as soon as possible....
To answer you Q....if something happened like that, it'll be unbearable for a long period, like sleepless nights....best thing is to get yourself invoved with some serious project....spend time with your friends....minimize spending time alone.....dont let that stop your life from moving forward....mainly get rid of all the memorables of your previous love....
start dating again....then you will come across that....
2007-02-21 05:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by banju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really sad & unfortunate. But life is like that only. Love has to be mutual, if you wish to be together & respected. Otherwise, it is one-sided love only.
And remember, you can not impose yourself upon someone who is not interested in you.
Though it may be very hard, try to forget the person...
2007-02-21 05:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is good that this person is telling you instead of running around behind your back. I think you should have a sit down and talk if it does not go well get on with your life and find somebody else.
2007-02-21 05:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by doughboy0022000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure? Ok fine. Thanks for the good times... Don't forget to say hi whenever you see me...
I personally would hate to stick around with anyone who ignores me. there are a lot more things in my life to bother me. Don't wanna take such things with a perspective that would distract me from those aspects...
:-)
2007-02-21 14:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say, Hi Pat! how ya doing? long time no hear. what is happening? get the latest news and tell them you are good to go and make a coffee date somewhere as you are dying to see what they look like and what they were doing..have it publicc..very publicc as you never know
2007-02-21 05:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear,this is really unaspected but this is the real thing which we should aceept so,please try to forget it and concentrate in your new life.if i was at your position than i would have think that she might be in a serious problem so she denied me otherwise she will share her problem with me. so its better to forget her and start anew life.BEST OF LUCK my blessings are with you.
2007-02-21 05:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by bhavin2tal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a talk with the person about wat exactly has happened
if the person is not in a mood to talk then give him/her some time let think of it
dont get upset.. be cool and handle the situation carefully
and if the person does not respond .... move on.... thats life
2007-02-21 05:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by jill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cry and then be in bad mood for some days and would then concentrate my mind wholly towards my career.
2007-02-21 05:08:19 · answer #11 · answered by Debu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋