Although when once started i can keep talking and stuff, I cant really start even with close people .. Dont know what to say and how to start a topic? what can you talk about?
2007-02-20 20:59:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Dont worry i'm the same. people have wondered if i speak english and if i was dumb and couldnt understand them!!!
But I simply go quiet and don't know what to say when i'm around people i dont really know. even friends i know but are talking about things in a group, i am usually the one to keep quiet and not know what to say.
Theres nothing wrong with it and if you feel you should input then say something and dont be scared of saying it. I've found it has helped sometimes which has lead the convo to something i am more passionate about or know more about so then i have a good convo with the group.
Being shy is annoying..
2007-02-20 21:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about starting a topic. Be confident being an introverted person. The best thing you can do is listen. Then just wait for their questions. The best time to speak is when you answer their questions.
2007-02-21 05:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Hayes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely anything....you have the whole world to talk about--that's a lot of stuff. Whatever is on your mind is a good place to start, or what you have been doing lately, or something you've been becoming interested in. And, actually, it's always best to start a conversation by askign about the person you're talking to...ask them what they have been doing lately or how something went that they had told you they were planning to do, etc.
2007-02-21 05:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋