My best friend just confided in me that her and her hubby hardly have sex, because when they do, it lasts less than 5 minutes, and its not long enough to satisfy her. I dont know how to help her since its never been an issue in my marriage. I'd love to be able to give her some pointers. Any advice?
2007-02-20 20:52:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes there is one method. If you have a good partner and it is a goal for both parties- you get him close to climax, and then you switch to oral or kissing and then switch back to intercourse. Not only does that make the session more passionate but it also prolongs the orgasm. P.S. If it's taking her longer than him, maybe she could get a good toy and make that part of foreplay. Dont be shy! Then she'll not need him for more than 1 minute.heehee. And if he climaxes before she does, that doesnt mean he cant finish the job, there are plenty of ways if they use their imagination,,,and the toy..
2007-02-20 21:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 06:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming the parties are still young, learning how to talk with each other about pleasure and satisfaction in a non-emotionally charged environment is a basic beginning.
If the guy isn't very experienced, and particularly if he doesn't mastrubate much. he may just have too much pent-up energy.
Learning about foreplay or warming up pleasures can be practiced and learned.
If a youg man doesn't really understand that physical intimacy is more than just an orgasm, he has some growing up to do.
As a practical matter, when hel learns to "warm up" and excite his partner, she usually responds by getting wet and silky, which allows entry without as much friction and can prolong his ability to stay in longer.
There are hundreds of techniques, but a willingness and ability to learn and experiment together is a basic requirement.. That usually is based on a certain level of trust & respect. If that is present other problems will pop up along the way as well. That is a more complex problem to deal with.
2007-02-21 05:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by woodmark52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lot's of good suggestions by other people here. However, if she wants to make sure he stays up for as long as she could ever want the two of them might consider getting a penile implant.
I have one of those and i can stay up for 4 straight hours but then have to rest for a half hour or so. Then i get it up for another 4 hours It's great and works everytime.
As long as there is plenty of lubrication i could lay back and let a dozen women ride it in shifts. Was the best investment i've made for personal pleasure in my lifetime.
2007-02-20 22:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pills won't help if your talking about viagra that stuff only works to make it work. But he should bust a load once or twice before they do it it will make him last longer. 5 minutes is better than 2 maybe she needs to think about speeding her process up, who's to say lasting long is better than his 5 min. Me personally i don't like going for hours its piontless, i like 15 min tell him to try for 10 hehe. Tell her to get a vibrater, then he bends her over and she uses it on the hot spot while he go's to town back there.
2007-02-20 20:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do longer foreplay- This is one of the most overlooked aspects of lasting longer in bed. It's far simpler than you ever thought it could be if you do more foreplay. Most couples tend to ignore foreplay or keep it very short. Spend more time in practicing foreplay than actual intercourse. If you involve yourself in several hours of foreplay even short duration of intercourse would seem astonishingly pleasurable.
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2015-08-13 02:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres a deadly little device she can get in a sex shop called a cock n ball ring, the husband puts it around his cock and the other part around his balls and it vibrates which delays ejaculation....if that doesn't work theres a cream she can get to help her orgasm or why not get her to bring a few sex toys into the equation im sure her husband wouldnt mind tell her to check out smartpaddy.ie. good luck to her. x x
2007-02-20 20:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is the best way if you masturbate untill you almost ejaculate then stop pause for a bit until the sensation passes then carry on do that once in a while and you should see some result hope that helps!
2016-03-29 05:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
offe rto have them read a book on karma sutra this teaches tecniques on forlonging the male orgasam also try suggesting that he masterbate beforehand i hope that these suggestions help and good luck
2007-02-20 21:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mark R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called foreplay......Loads of it thats the only way she can achieve anything without using pills
2007-02-20 20:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋