Hi. I have a mental disorder and a great coach that helps me with finding work and the social security. Where I live getting social security is not always so easy.
The thing is I want to get refractive surgery which is expensive for me. I'm feeling guilty that I want to spend a lot of money while my coach is helping me to survive- I can't tell her that I want to do this.
Surely I should spend everything on eductaion to find work?
On the other hand it's my decision what I spend things on -Should I be feeling this guilty? -I feel like a criminal.
2007-02-20 20:45:52 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
money is no good on the other side of the dirt - very good saying i heard today! If its your money and you learn to budget it then talk to your coach about it. If its something you should work for, then try and get some work before you go spending the money. I'm not sure what refractive surgery is but if its worthwhile in the long run then surely with a bit of work and a bit of assistance from your coach, you can earn the dosh and do what you want.
Like with anyone, to spend a fair bit of money, you need to either have it and know by spending it, you wont be stuck starving. or you need to work for it. I work to pay off a new car but i love my new car :-)
Good on you, keep your chin up and do what you feel is best!
2007-02-20 21:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not Criminal or bad person. This is disorder which could be rectified by an expert. Be sportive and think that everybody have criminal ideas. But that doesn't mean all are criminal. You are a good person.
2007-02-21 05:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Muthumani N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If more people were as throughful as you, the world would be pretty nice....
Talk to your coach about it...she will understand, and will be there to listen to you
2007-02-21 04:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
Just be yourself, don't give yourself stress by thinking too much ok? You are doing well. Just keep continue and never give up.
Cheers.
2007-02-21 04:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is refractive surgery
if it feels bad then it probably is
think it over
2007-02-21 04:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why should you feel guilty? You deserve the money ..spend it as you please.
2007-02-21 04:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kendra420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really admire you
2007-02-21 04:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by darren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋