i am in a long distance relationship.........thers this person whom i like soooooooooooo much.........acctually i love him as my elder brother........we have been having a wonderfull brother and sister relationship for the past 1year............but a few days back i got angry for a silly thing and hurt his feelings..........hes really upset now...........i know that wat i did was wrong and has apologised to him already.............can anyone tell me how i can make him understand that i love him truely and i did not do it on purpose............................
2007-02-20 20:16:33 · 11 answers · asked by Janani . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"When you stop on a stranger's foot in a market place, you apologize profusely for your mistake. If you step on a friend's foot, you know you are already forgiven."
-This is a Buddhist quote, I believe, and it's originally about a "parent's foot" but it applies to friends, as well. If you're really as close as you say, he has already forgiven you, but he still needs to know that you're sorry and he means alot to you.
I would suggest doing something creative for him to say that you're sorry. Something that's specially for him. It's all up to personal taste, but do something nice like make him dinner, make a card lol It doesn't matter what. It's not really about the action, but about the effort.
2007-02-22 10:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Chicken Little 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you really didn't mean to hurt his feelings and let him know how you really feel. Try asking if there is anything you can do for him to forgive you. I hope things would work out.
2007-02-21 04:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sabrina 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If this person is as understanding as you Say and knows your whims, he should forgive you. Use this as a lesson to think before you say something, especially something that may hurt.
2007-02-21 04:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Simple! Talk to him and he'll surely understand you.and learn from your mistakes to become a better person in life and relationship.
GOD BLESS.
2007-02-21 04:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all girls and boys can get silly..just be more mature and try not to act like a silly little school girl all the time. it does get old.
2007-02-21 04:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word only"sorry" will do.geting angry is your right but dont think that the world should pause and take notice every time you go bonkers.
amused african.
2007-02-21 04:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by digan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Janani: Undoubtedly you are now, 'CACTUS', -with him: (there can be "nice words" -for months..
(-but WHO DO you imagine you are? Queen Cleopatra)?
He has Thousands of (closer) femmes from which to chose,
"out there".. Time to [face the unfacable]: it is over..
(but, for ages -if you wish- you can deny it).
2007-02-21 04:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Captain M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hmmm..leave him alone for a wile...
2007-02-21 04:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him live Alone.
2007-02-21 04:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by SRA Qady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a headjob
2007-02-21 04:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by toymod 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋