havn't fallen pregnant yet but when i go back into my charts to see if i charted sex correctly according to my ovulation peak it seems i have. everyday and even every 2 days before , on and day after ovulation. had a miscarriage 9 months ago so i know i can fall pregnant. what am i doing wrong!
2007-02-20 19:42:09 · 4 answers · asked by rollita9 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Unfortunately getting pregnant isn't a matter of doing it right or wrong.
You can do everything right, chart BBT, check cervix, examine CM, ovulation tests etc etc and still not hit the mark, it is always a game of chance.
So many people medicalise conception in the misguided belief that it will help them fall pregnant quicker, and watch every month for any sign that means they could possibly be pregnant, I am sure the stress can't be conducive to an easy conception.
As difficult as it is, take a month off, make love when you want to, not when you have to, you might be surprised by the difference.
I always thought I fell pregnant easily, until this time, 3 months of charting and ovulation kits and still nothing, so all that is in the bin and we are going back to the old fashioned way.
Maybe next month we will both have a +.
Good luck.
2007-02-20 19:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably aren't doing anything wrong. Sometimes it just takes a while. Healthy couples are on average not getting pregnant for a minimum of 6 months and you arent even supposed to see a dr until you have tried unsuccessfully for a year. I know how stressful all of this can be and the best advise i can give you is what people are telling me and that is to relax. I hear it is the best medicine. Maybe take a break from tracking for a month or go on a vacation. I have heard these things work wonderful miracles (but i also know how hard it is to give these things up) Good Luck, i hope you get what you are wanting soon!!!
2007-02-21 00:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Adams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, to be honest I would have no idea where to start trying to chart my bbt or anything I went on mymonthlycycles.com and put in my period for 3 months then the website automatically sends you an email telling you when you are ovulating its free and easy and I concieved the first time! Good Luck!!!
2007-02-20 21:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋