before we foll in love with anyone we have us and our fears how do we com bane who we really are with adders?

Answer 1

You are correct in that we all are different personalities, and it's a scary prospect to let yourself fall in love or be in love with another person, because then you open yourself up to a wide range of emotions, including being hurt.
We combine who we are with others over a lifetime. People who are married 50 years are still discovering things about each other, and making constant adjustments and compromises to be able to live successfully together.
Much of it is a willingness to let someone else be more important to you than you are to yourself. And still you have to love yourself too. It's a balancing act, all the days of your life, but it's also very worth it. A life without love is a selfish life, and that's really not as fun as it might seem.

Answer 2

It just happens, if you r even close to being compatiable, well some kind of smark will happen, but that is not nuassary that you are meant fo rone another. You know it just happens, and you are lucky if it stays with you both for the rest of your life, cause today people just expect to much from each other, so in a why it is a mircle that anyone really falls in love, and lives happely ever afer.

Answer 3

We combine with others when our minds, bodies, spirits, passions and life interests compliment each other. Souls and spirits, if you believe in such things, can explain a lot.

--That Cheeky Lad

Answer 4

mmm how do we combine with others?

that's a deep question, hopefully you are open enough that you are yourself with your friends and your lover. You are going to be more open with your lover and that is purely natural!

Answer 5

English motherf*cker. Do you speak it?

Answer 6

Sorry, not sure what you're trying to ask.