my freind's parents wanted to arrange her marriage She had no problem The boy's family was invited over.The boy and the girl wanted to meet each other and talk.They went for a drive The boy wanted to kiss her saying his freind did that.The girl got upset as she probably thought nothing has been finalised she is now refusing to marry ,boy is asking her are you having affair?is the girl right or is the boy right?girl's family knows about this and are not saying anything What do youthink is happening here?
2007-02-20 19:21:51 · 15 answers · asked by sm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She's right. He has ALOT of growing up to do. He's way too pushy that's for sure.
2007-02-20 19:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The girl is right here. The fact that the boy's friend did it does not automatically call for similar advance from the girl as much as its abscence does not establish that she has an affair.The boy has to act more intelligently and in a more mature manner, if otherwise both approve of each other.
2007-02-24 21:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all do they even like each other. I think it's more than resisting a kiss. A kiss will not prevent a girl for not wanting to marry. Your friend and the boy need to let each know how they really feel for one another.
2007-02-21 15:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy might have thought that he won over her even before things were finalised. He shouldn't have asked for the kiss in the first meeting itself. Be it a meeting for finalisation of a marraige or just a casual meeting, girls don't like guys who ask for the kiss even before they know each other properly...
:-)
2007-02-21 14:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy should not have been so hurry. And if nothing has been finalized, his request for a kiss was unnecessary and cannot be accepted by the girl. She would also doubt that he might have done it with other girls also. So do not proceed with this proposal. Find another boy.
2007-02-21 03:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by psgnathan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not the right doing by the boy: but if she knew well about the boy, family and actually he has performed this action in a frustration: and if he realises and explain, she can accept:
2007-02-21 06:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What country is this happening in?? Certianly not anywhere in North America I hope.
The young fella needs to cool his jets a little bit. Let this poor girl have some space. She obviously isn't impressed by him...if the parents force this they are messed up.
2007-02-21 03:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course she is right.. She has all the right to get upset.. and its good that she have told her parents abt it.. Wel abt the guy... he have to grow up!! Tel the gal not to lose hope.. He is not the right guy for any gal.. He got to change his attitude before he thinks of marriage.. So childish and does not accept that he is in the wrong.. God!! (Parents of the guy side, EDUCATE ur son pls..)
2007-02-21 03:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think think the girl thought the boy was taking too much liberty. I do anyway. She reacted and made a decision. That was it. I would respect her decision and I would stop any attempt to escalate this aggressively.
2007-02-21 03:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ron H 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WAKE UP FOLKS, the question is over an arranged marriage!!!
I didnt know there was protocol for this kind of goofey deal.
2007-02-21 03:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by TEXASMALE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
CAN THEY NOT FIND SOMEONE FOR THEMSELVES , KNOW EACH OTHER , FALL IN LOVE AND MARRY ?
GO FOR A DRIVE , TRY TO KISS HER ? WHAT NEXT ?
GREAT PARENTS - TAKE A DAUGHTE R AND PLACE HER IN SOMEONES TRUST AND EXPECT A MARRIAGE TO POP UP ?
MMMMMM - AM I CONFUSED HERE ? OR WERE THE PARENTS LITERALLY PUTTING THEIR DAUGHTER AT RISK OF BEING RAPED ?
2007-02-21 03:49:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋