can we tell them your family problem?
or is that normal if we didnt talk about?
2007-02-20 19:11:31 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wow, i think best friend is not depends on what the same or different between you and him/her, but on how you can have good communication with him/her, it also share your problem (include family problem), the good friend in need is good friend indeed.
2007-02-20 19:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by roy_marzoed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the relationships & I do mean all, should maintain some distance.
If u bring anything too close to ur eye, it will start hurting. A beautiful object becomes a pain. Share only what u r comfortable sharing & not something for which u urself have doubts. I know , we do want someone in life who knows us in & out but trust me, to such a person u dont have to tell abt urself .
There are times, we get emotional & talk about stuff which are like our deep, dark secrets & might feel embarrassed later on. If u think u have a friend with whom u wont feel that way, then way to go girl.
I myself have not one but 4-5 good friends who know a lot about me compared to rest. Maybe I have been lucky enough to have friends whom I can trust blindly & they have nevr let me down. Nor have I :)
So, I guess its something mutual. If ur friend also is comfortable while talking to u (not necessary secrets ) & is understanding then I guess u should follow ur heart.
Just remember, others can hurt us only if we give them that much importance in our life. If u r taking ur frenz support, then be ready to handle emotional ups & downs.
2007-02-23 00:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can definitely tell your those family problems which are known to others also. You should not reveal the secrets of your family to any friend. Today's friend can become your enemey tomorrow and that friend will take undue advantage of your trust. Friendship is mainly for your entertainment sharing equal thoughts,hobbies,opinion about the world surroundings,all that pertains to you but not your family, etc. You can be very close to your friend if he/she is reliable but always keep such a distance which would not allow the friend to use you.
2007-02-21 04:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by VP K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs someone to share his or her secrets. With a really good and trusted friend you can talk about any and everything under the sun.
2007-02-21 03:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk general always till you have gauged him on all counts. do not show your weakness. every body has problems. to share problems is like running away from problems. face your problems yourself. and remember no problem will have third party solution.
apna kam swaim karo.
2007-02-21 03:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by sri577201 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can talk about anything with a friend.. just make sure they'll going to keep ur conversation as a secret..
2007-02-21 05:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by err ryt.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends can talk about anything I would think. I need to shave.
2007-02-21 03:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be as close as you both choose but it all deals with trust and honesty .
2007-02-21 03:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry D H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the meaning of friendship is two open heart .so sure you can until you are ready to share
2007-02-23 10:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by cool moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see today one person might be your friend tomorrow he might change ...how do u choose your friend based on wat their dress ...attitude ...something like wavelength ...same thinking wat is your basis for friendship ...let me tell one thing share youy happiness with others ..it will be doubled and forget your sorrows ...k ..k so coming to ur question better do not share that is normal
2007-02-21 03:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋