suppose that the girl is newly married to a IT professional. husband bcoz of his too much workload does not find time to spend with her.wat will be the reaction of that girl?..............
2007-02-20 19:09:17 · 8 answers · asked by james j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she will leavehim
2007-02-20 19:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the old days when people were newly married the man was given a one year leave that he should not go to war but be with his wife. When newly married is the time to get close and spend more time with the wife. Work is not and excuse for not being with your wife. But your question is more on what will be the reaction of that girl? and the answer is she will feel lonely, not accepted and she will think of maybe she is not satisfying her husband as she should. And one other reason that men tend to avert to work in new relationship is frustration. Like he would come home ready for sex and the lady tells him she is on her monthly period. In a new relationship man can ask himself as to why didn't the wife tell him before, but then a lady can not be blamed because intimacy in relationship is not only sex but cuddling and holding each other is part of it. Your friend should make sure if really the husband is at work or somewhere else. to verify that he may not be working alone so get the numbers of his friends and call them when they are together at work. call him and if he says he is at work as him to drop the phone so that you can speak with him on a landline. But then if no suspisions try to sort the problem you may be having with him. remember, God loves you
2007-02-20 19:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,it's a fact that when she is newly married she is so excited and wants to spend as much time as possible with her husband (normaly!)....so there would not be a very good reaction of her if she sees she can't be enough with her husband , but the improtant thing is that the 2 couple should try to work things out i think one way can be ,trying to talk to her about the great worload that the husband has and try to find some times for each other and make it good....but well i ,personally, am sensitive so when my only love of life doesn't have time for me i get really sad and feel rejected...cause when you get married , you actually make a commitment ...and that is to be with each other in good and bad times...good luck!
2007-02-20 19:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the type of person she is if she is laid back and understanding then she might not mind so much but if she's more of an on edge, jealous type person she might not like it too much. If this husband has never done anything that would cause him to lose the trust his wife has in him then she probably trusts him and isn't too worried about it but if she doesn't trust him she may think it's not really his "job" that's causing him to spend so much time away from home. It really boils down to the relationship the two of them have and what type of person she is.
2007-02-20 19:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by *~KeL~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just refer to yourself?
It's obvious that you are talking about your own situation right now.
If she loves you, she will stick by you no matter what. But she will probably complain to you and you need to consider her feelings and not give her a harder time by not showing any understanding.
She is lonely when she spends less and less time with you. Best thing to do is make time to spend with her. When the day comes that you have quality time with her, make it wonderful and make her happy that she will feel it is worth the wait...
If you don't keep your lover happy, or if you lack something or aren't able to provide what your parter is searching for, then keep in mind that they might search elsewhere.
Satisfy her wishes someway somehow, or compromise those needs she has. That way she knows she has a good man and you will not need to worry.
2007-02-20 19:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuz they are STILL newlyweds, she will try to take it as much as she can... maybe a year later, she will get upset and fights will be going on often
2007-02-20 19:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isn't something she just comes across one day..or stumbles across....chances are if she is with an IT she will know before she marries him what she is dealing with.
2007-02-20 19:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE TO CHEATING! OR TRY HER HARDEST TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU.
2007-02-20 19:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by ****BUTTERFLYQWEEN***** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋