Do you reward your partner if you dont have a fight with each other? I plan to give my girlfriend a supprise if we are still not fighting after 6 months. let me know if you are in a relationship where both of you dont fight, share some of your tactics for maintaining a peaceful relationship.
2007-02-20 19:07:45 · 8 answers · asked by treb67 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOTS OF SEX AND GIFTS !!! EVERYONE IS HAPPY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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2007-02-20 19:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by ESAVVY1 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I want you to know something very important: A relationship that is a healthy one, that grows, builds a strong foundation, and will last, is one that will have its share of "fights". (Not violent ones!). That is how you get to know each others boundries and sensitivities. If a relationship is one where there is no fighting at all - that would actually be scary. It would be so "fake". Or so "shallow". or something not right. Don't worry so much. If you have an argument, just remember a few very important things: try to avoid sarcasm... no wait.... DO NOT use sarcasm at all...do not call each other names and do your very best to not say hurtful things to each other because these are the things that will deteriorate your relationship. Try to keep things calm enough to discuss the issue. If things begin to heat up.... take a 10 or 15 minute break. But, make sure to continue the discussion asap. Do not let it go and forget about it because it won't go away until you at least discuss it. Oh yeah, one more very important tip: its ok to disagree... you both need to know that you can agree to disagree and respect each others opinions even if you don't agree with it. Just know that it is how the other feels and that is that. Offer your own opinion, if you both still hold your own opinion, then, ok. Respect it. Thats it. Good luck
2007-02-21 03:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My advice: Make sure she likes the gift and it won't be the cause of your first fight :).
On a serious note though, the first month of a relationship is the time in which both of you are insecure about the relationship so are dying to impress the other. So i won't count on it lasting. You are two different people from a different background so misunderstandings are bound to occur. And the sooner, the better. I'm not that crazy about a "peaceful" relationship anyway. Coz if you gotta be honest and *individual* in a relationship, there are bound to be clashes. Which, in most cases, would help the relationship grow and you along with it. What you should therefore pray about isn't peace; but the kind of bond that would pull you through, as a couple, AFTER the clashes.
2007-02-21 03:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Biqo 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ah, go ahead and have a little fight now and again. It's healthy to disagree on things once in a while. JUST REMEMBER: When you do have a spat, fight FAIR. No name calling, no bringing up crap from 6 months ago, leave the kids and family out of it. Most of all, for the love of God, when you finally bicker LISTEN as much as you, or more than, you talk.
2007-02-21 05:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's a hard question to answer unless you two really don't have any dissagreements then kudos. But, I've learned it's healthy to have a little spat here and there. Don't hold things in until one of you blows big time it's better to get into little tifs here and there plus it lets you know what the other is thinking honestly.Unfortunatelly I am a hold it in until the breaking point and it's never a pretty picture.
2007-02-21 03:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by DropTopAle 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
a month is too early anyway-but it is good to be optimistic remember life is short but fortunately not too short.Things are bound to happen and with goodwill all will be ok
2007-02-21 04:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by sm 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex shouldn't be a priority!
Communication!
Sacrifice / give in sometimes!
Make the other person know they are important to you everyday!
2007-02-21 03:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
remove all galtfane between u and her/she.
2007-02-21 03:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Abbas hero 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋